Family & Relationships - 23 July 2006

girls, it is your responsibility to tell us guys when we are starting to go to far. natually us guys want to test our boundries when starting a relationship, and you need to tell us where we are in the relationship. most guys don't know where they are at, so they will try to see what you let us get away with.


i just had the feeling that i should inform girls about this. and this was the only way to put it into a form of a question.

personally i'm not trying for sex in the relationship i am trying to get into but i seem to try to test my boundries (subconsciously). i'll rub her back, kiss her arm and cheek (not anything to over the top). basicly guys just want to kow where they are at. you need to tell us if we are going to far. we are not going to get mad (the good ones wont) we just need to know how close we are at the time.

if you feel unconfortable please tell us.

2006-07-23 19:39:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad was always drunk when I was a child, and he cheated on my mom. I have a lot of built up anger towards him and I feel that he's ruined my ability to trust men. It took me 2 years to trust my current bf. My dad was never physically abusive, but he had a way of making me feel like doo doo. I rarely speak to him anymore because I find that I have nothing to say to him nor do I know what to talk about. It's like I don't actually have a dad. Sometimes when I think about him I get so mad I just want to call him and tell him what he did to hurt my sister and I. Should I confront him? He's still an alcoholic, so finding him sober is hard. I just want him to know what he did was wrong. I don't want to die, or have him die without him knowing how much he hurt me. Is that wrong?

2006-07-23 19:37:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-07-23 19:37:44 · 8 answers · asked by NANCY K 6 in Marriage & Divorce

forgive and forget ..be the better person i dont love him enymore and i think he is a real coward and a d$#k and i realy want to kick the sh$% outa him I mean what kind of fu#$ed up person dose that? i dont love him at all but i realy REALY hate him i would like him to know what a dic^ he is but i just put my head up and walked away with out a word ..i know he will probly read this 'KEVIN' is that enough for him to see this or should i snail mail him a box of horse sh$t with all my love? just for the record i am 26 work on a drilling rig met someone new fantastic man way better in bed lol a hell of a lot better and i can defanatly handle my own oh yeah and ps kevin...i had a lesbian affair but somehow i wasnt having sex nearly as much as you were but i bet mine wasnt as sleazy as youre new wife with the big nose.

2006-07-23 19:37:35 · 6 answers · asked by lismo2121 2 in Weddings

I'm in love with my bestfriend and it hurts alot everytime I feel unattended and dissapointed,I dont know how to move on and forget her because I'm totally attached to her and I'm even the godfather of both of her children, weve been bestfriends for about 9 years already at first I've accepted the fact that she can only love me as a friend because he loves someone else and its impossible for her to love me more than being bestfriends, we became as close as bestfriends because of all the things that weve gone through, I'm always there everytime she needs me, I cant let anything happen to her, I've attempted to forget about her alot of times but everytime she contacts me and expresses her needs I cannot help but be there for her. what should I do? it really hurts alot everytime I misses her and cant ask her out because of the situation, and Im afraid that someday she will completely forget about me because of her responisibilities and family life..

2006-07-23 19:36:57 · 15 answers · asked by rohn 1 in Friends

A girl of romance, deep within my dreams.
This girl of romance, will she come to me.
With lips so sweet, with eyes like the stars.
When I meet this girl our lives will never part.
I can not wait to meet that blessed soul.
The body of this woman, that I don't even know.
But I still see her, each night as I sleep.
Oh how my heart weeps, for this girl I wait to meet.
I know she's full of romance, I know she's full of love.
I know she's being sent, from my loving father above!!!

2006-07-23 19:36:02 · 4 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

You've met the girl of your dreams. She has the personality you look for in a future wife, she has all the physical qualities you like in a girl, and she has similar goals/plans for the future. She's pretty much your ideal girl. Now, would you want her to be a virgin or a nonvirgin when you marry her? Why or why not?

2006-07-23 19:35:59 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if girls wana give me advice plz.

2006-07-23 19:35:49 · 8 answers · asked by waz 2 in Singles & Dating

I just want to know what to look for. How do you know? Someone help. I really like this guy and I want to ask him out, but I don't know if I should or not. I hate rejection!!!!!

2006-07-23 19:35:10 · 2 answers · asked by LaLaKat 1 in Singles & Dating

If they don't I guess I s.h.i.t. my pants.

2006-07-23 19:34:43 · 3 answers · asked by abbeyroad54321 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi. Can someone tell me what might be reasons why teens have problem respecting and accepting authority and how do we explain this value to him?

2006-07-23 19:34:18 · 8 answers · asked by eu271 1 in Family

I have a boyfriend I really want to and should stay with. This stranger in a shop I met asked for my number, I rejected him and then after I started liking him. I'm really hating myself for it. if I keep liking this stranger I'm afraid I'll stop loving my boyfriend I'd hate for that to happen because he's so good to me. =( I seriously need help. If I keep liking this stranger, it might mean the end of my relationship with my awesome boyfriend. I'm afraid the answer of "time" isn't going to help. I don't even remember what he looks like. just that he had black plastic thorn hot topic bracelets, I think he was hispanic, 18 and I believe he had a slightly dark small mohawk under his hat (bout probably 3/4 inch high) and he sounded really nice and I rejected him =(. I'll never see him again and I really want to stay loyal to my boyfriend emotionally.

2006-07-23 19:33:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im outgoing,fun,honest,nice,lovable nd much more thingz

2006-07-23 19:32:45 · 4 answers · asked by Po0kii3 1 in Friends

waddya think he was thinking??

2006-07-23 19:31:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this guy friend and I have liked him for a while now I think about him all the time actually over time I think I have fallen in love with him and i'm afraid if i tell him the way I feel about him, he wont like me as a friend anymore or wont talk to me I just need some advice on how to get him to like me back the way I do I dont want to push him but he acts funny when I bring up the topic about dating he just trys to change the subject I know for sure he isnt gay or anything like that I just really need some advice I dont know if he isnt ready for a relationship or what I feel so confused

2006-07-23 19:31:47 · 17 answers · asked by brittaniej23 1 in Singles & Dating

give me something meaningful please :-D

2006-07-23 19:31:27 · 5 answers · asked by Jason 3 in Friends

i am from a different religion to this girl. she is my neighbour and if we break up i couldent show my face outside. we have known each other for over a year and used to speak with a few other people in my garden, now we say hi when we meet. but whenever i see her i just fell like onions have been stuffed in my eyes and ive been kicked in a special place knowing im not with her, she dosent seem to be in love with me but i really want to ask her out but never had the... courage to, i think about her until 1 in the morning, and the longer im not with her my heart cracks further.i need help how can i ask her out now!!!!1

2006-07-23 19:29:38 · 4 answers · asked by nathan sharp 1 in Singles & Dating

Assume that you were asked to use your own opinion in searching the globe for the hottest and most brilliant White Guy, Black Guy, Spanish Guy, Asian Guy and Indian Guy.

Now, once you've decided who the 5 guys are, you are told that you can only date one of them. Which one do you date?

2006-07-23 19:29:34 · 11 answers · asked by stereotypes_are_true 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not the type who's easily intimidated. However, with this particular friend, I find myself a complete pushover.

2006-07-23 19:28:52 · 36 answers · asked by M R 1 in Friends

My brothers in and out of group homes i dont really see my dad anymore and my moms always on business trips. im only 14 so i have to go live with my friends when my moms gona and thats the last of my family what do i do?

2006-07-23 19:28:39 · 22 answers · asked by gangsta 2 in Family

2006-07-23 19:26:55 · 12 answers · asked by aarzooji a 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so recently i met this girl in college and we've been seeing each other and hanging out for the past 4 months. 3 weeks ago i confessed to her about my feelings that i really like her and she said she likes me back., but she wants to stay single for now because she needs to learn to grow as a person. And i told her that I'd wait for her because she really is worth the wait, and i dont mind waiting. so a few weeks past and yesterday when i asked her to hang out, it was the first time she said i dont know. and then she said i dont wanna keep saying i dont know so i wanted to tell you that i feel awkward after we hang out because of the thought of me waiting for her makes her feel weird. So i asked her what she wanted to do about it and she said i dont know and that maybe we shouldnt hang out anymore. And every question i asked from then on is an "I dont know." And she later told me she felt that she can't open up her feelings to me and now i dont know what to do.

2006-07-23 19:26:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-23 19:26:26 · 10 answers · asked by 747fly 1 in Family

Hmm, i am chewing a lego and waiting to talk to someone special to say sorry, for what i did.....

2006-07-23 19:26:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

One boy is 8 and the other is 6. Mine is also 6. I told her to stop it, but it has not. She said because my son tells on them and that makes them dislike it. He is an only child and, very well behaved. So he does not know how to act 2 boys who are always doing the wrong thing. It is my fault I told him to tell me when ever someone does wrong to him, so that is what he learned. So should I put the fear in god in them, which will only make them hate me. That is what I did to one (the 6 yr old). And he stopped. Or should I break up, which I would hate. Or what do I do? She says punish him for tattling. But I have a hard time doing so. Because I told him to tell me. I told him to stop doing it so much, he did. He even stopped, not completly but it rarely happened. But one boy did not stop his bullying( the 8 yr old ). But if I scare him into not bullying my son, he would only hate me. I only want them to stop tormenting my son. I have lost my patients, and soon I will loose my temper.

2006-07-23 19:25:23 · 8 answers · asked by mykd4sound 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have great sex! What can we do to spice it up? We have done pretty much everything so any thing goes? PLEASE dont answer with the same answer...."have a 3sum" !!!!! What can i do to have him want me more then he already does?

2006-07-23 19:25:21 · 3 answers · asked by jlh04 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

LOL

2006-07-23 19:25:19 · 3 answers · asked by jenniferkendall8 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you prefer?

2006-07-23 19:25:17 · 8 answers · asked by macssvt....the one and only.... 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf is very possessive about me.. we are deeply in love with each other since th past 6 years an we are marrying next year. he has his reasons to believe that i cant be trusted coz i had some very dark skeletons hidden in the closet which i told him at the nascent stages of our relationship. He was complely shaken ...he wanted 2 leave me but i begged him not 2. tht was my past n it wd nevr cme back. he 2 lved me 2 much 2 live without me. we moved on but he was always scared tht i might 4get him wn we got away fm each other. i went 2 sme other place to study n 1 day i lied to him fr goin to a guy friend's bday party. we had th biggest fight of our lives tht day an since then he was so disturbed mentally tht he started taking sleeping pills. he s the nicest guy i know but now he hs developed a split personality.. he gets paranoid wen he remembers th numerous mistakes i ve committed .. i want 2 help himself n myself. an no.. plz dont tell me 2 leave him.He's my life!!

2006-07-23 19:24:57 · 4 answers · asked by sonz 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm asian and I've been attracted to hispanic guys (especially tall guys) since I was 15. I'm 22 now and I've dated hispanics, caucasians, and only 2 asian guys in my life. All my asian friends are only into asian guys and only find them attractive, but I don't. No offense, but some just seem insecure, therefore they will try really hard to look cool. Some of them put more time and effort into trying to look cool than anything else. Some tend to not act like themselves and just try to blend in with other people.

Whenever my mom found out I was seeing a hispanic guy, she always went beserk, so did my sister. They seem to have a thing against hispanics. My sister said that it's unusual for an asian girl and a hispanic guy to date. My mom wants me to marry either an asian or a caucasian guy. Do you think it's unusual for me to be so attracted to hispanics and consider marrying one?

2006-07-23 19:24:51 · 9 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Singles & Dating