My brothers in and out of group homes i dont really see my dad anymore and my moms always on business trips. im only 14 so i have to go live with my friends when my moms gona and thats the last of my family what do i do?
2006-07-23 19:28:39 · 22 answers · asked by gangsta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What's your question?I'm confused.Sorry I can't help though.
2006-07-23 19:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never stop at least trying to make a good or decent life for yourself. Don't you have any other relatives at all?
As for your brother he obviously has a few problems but please don't let them get you down, it is a very hard situation you are in and your age makes the whole thing an even more serious situation. Have you talked to your mum? There are a lot of things you can do but you first need to talk to your mum, and let her know how you are feeling and what your fears are.
Take it easy and don't do anything silly or anything that your are going to regret in the future because you have your whole life ahead of you and you can get through this you just need to think about what you want to do and what you need to do and say.
2006-07-24 03:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by jackocomp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in contact with your brother as much as you can...write him letters, tell him how much you love and miss him. Love your friends' family for helping you out and taking you in when your mom is gone. I'm sure your mom doesn't prefer the way things are going, either...it must be real hard for a mother to have a family going through something like this. Start a hobby with your friend(s) you stay with-scrapbooking or pimpin out old clothes. Most of all, talk to your mom. Tell her you are insecure about your family situation and ask her how she feels? You are still young but I am sure she would like to talk to someone about it, as well.
2006-07-24 02:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by PerfeclyImperfect 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on going to school and doing well. Don't look for a substitute for your dad. Do well in school and try to get involved with school activities. Make it your goal in life to not create a situation that repeats what has happened to you. In other words, dont seek out guys because you are needy for a father figure. Dont seek out guys who want to use you for sex, and than leave you with a child that you'll raise alone. Wait for a long time before you get serious about guys. You will have a difficult and challenging time. Be strong. \
2006-07-24 02:35:13 · answer #4 · answered by Yourname Here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find your Grand Parents and if you can't, start looking for family that you can trust and a good sign is if they are very stable as a family (strong family values). I hope you are able to find some stability in your life and hang on to it. Stability is a hard thing to find and without it, there is no family. Find God.... not church, but worship.... Read the bible and don't listen to the idiots that tell you to hurt yourself or tell you to give up on life. Never surrender no matter how hard it is.
I hope you find Peace.
2006-07-24 02:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by KeAhi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not say that LION! Suicide is never the answer. Sit down and talk to your mom about it face to face. I'm sure she loves you very much, and while she may not be able to change the fact that she has to go on buisness trips, I'm sure sitting down and talking to her about it, will ease some of your suffering. Much luck.
2006-07-24 02:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a not so great childhood myself, what i did was hung on until i was 16 then i went to job corps. its a government funded program that provides a schooling, a career, and a pretty safe environment for you , and food , and a bed , and friends. but make sure it is one of the top 5 in the united states
2006-07-24 03:33:23 · answer #7 · answered by truthbear1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your school counselor. Also, try talking to a trusted adult, maybe one of your friends' parents. They might be able to help you find ways to feel closer to your mom. Or maybe they can help you communicate your feelings to your mom. Maybe there is something she can do to be home more if she knows how you feel.
2006-07-24 02:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by askme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's too bad...you're parents are obviously trying to avoid the Home Front by staying away long periods of time...If you really want to get their attention...talk to our Priest or Pastor...and if that doesn't work..go to your School Counselor...someone has to LISTEN to you..you're still a minor and you need your parents...don't be afraid...the law protects you...good luck
2006-07-24 02:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by celine8388 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LION what a terrible thing to say.
Seek out the help of a school counselor or a trusted adult, or speak with your mom directly.
2006-07-24 02:34:13 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your mum for business trips you could meet new friends your age,email your dad to keep in touch,and your brothers tell them to grow up and be responsible
2006-07-24 02:36:36 · answer #11 · answered by Answerer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋