You've met the girl of your dreams. She has the personality you look for in a future wife, she has all the physical qualities you like in a girl, and she has similar goals/plans for the future. She's pretty much your ideal girl. Now, would you want her to be a virgin or a nonvirgin when you marry her? Why or why not?
2006-07-23 19:35:59 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It shouldn't really matter unless you live in a castle or ride around on a white horse. Life is not a fairy tale. If a woman possesses all of these qualities why would it matter, unless you are a mormon?
2006-07-23 19:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by cave man 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Most cave men would reply (Be a vigin)to this question quickly and without giving it much thought. However I would say that I'd prefer non virgin but not someone the whole neighborhood is familiar with. No one wants to have to teach certain things to their "wife" or close companion. However neither does he want to learn certain things either ie..(s&m, and other deviant ideas) So ultimately there has tobe a balance. She should be somewhat inexperienced but not Out THere!!
2006-07-23 19:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by Controversy KING 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virgin! Absolutely a virgin. As one who wasn't a virgin when I got married, I wish I could go back and change it. I think the greatest gift a woman could ever possibly give a guy is her virginity and to waste that gift that you only have once to give on a guy who you may possibly have no future with is a bad idea. I know that it made me feel special to know that my wife saved herself just for me on our wedding night. I know that is not a popular answer, especially with the guys, but if some guy doesn't want to be with you because you won't sleep with him then he is not worth your time! And if he tries to make you think that sleeping with him will somehow make him like you more or make him stay with you, HE IS LYING!!! Remember: You can only lose your virginity once. Don't waste it! (For the record, I think the same goes for guys, too! We should save ourselves for that special someone. A guy who sleeps with lots of girls is the same, in my eyes, as a girl who sleeps with lots of guys... Not a good idea!)
2006-07-23 19:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by superbigshow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Preference will always for a virgin girl. But verginity and non-verginity is only a question of time. In the future, this was not a prior question. Because if anybody is in love. Only love is a supreme thing for him and rest all are nothing, I think so. If the opportunity comes in such way, believe me I will accept in any manner. God Bless You.
2006-07-23 19:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not getting married to the girl of my dreams because she is not a virgin is worse than jumping in the sea with a huge stone tied around my neck.
Virginity should not be checked when you meet your miss right,just move on to the Altar and dont be dumb
2006-07-23 19:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by nntombicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough question. Does it really matter? hmmmmm....
If she were a virgin you could train her into what you like in bed.
on the other hand if she were a non virgin she could already know some things that you never thought was possible. It could be good both ways. So it shouldn't matter
2006-07-23 19:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by Eric R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not anyother hope on dreams. because the real life is so different and mysterious from imagination/dreams. I always give importance for reality. I am indian. we have strong belief in family relationship. i would like to get arranged marriage, I am 22 years youngster, my marriage will be after 8 years after arranged very good future to my youngsters. I know my parents will choose a best girl for me. and before marriage i do not care her personal life, becasue I do not know, after marriage we should be truithful.
2006-07-23 19:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sky lark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
technically, i dont really care either way. I mean in todays world, people have premarital sex. and if shes had sex before, well, so have i. if she hasnt, then thats cool too. i mean im not gonna wait until marriage for sex, because i havent already! and not to be shallow, but id rather sleep with someone before i marry them, because i dont wanna marry some girl with a wang or weird stuff. but if love was the case, i guess it wouldnt matter anyway.
2006-07-23 19:40:21 · answer #8 · answered by I LOVE DOGS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would of course prefer a virgin because I despise harlots and whores. Do you want a guy that has been with 250 random chicks?
2006-07-23 19:39:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...heres this...if u fall in love and u r gonna marry this person..ya its a good thing to be a virgin..i mean he can bang u before marrying u but the thought that hed be ur first and then marry u is just bout the same....
2006-07-23 19:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by Kletian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋