girls, it is your responsibility to tell us guys when we are starting to go to far. natually us guys want to test our boundries when starting a relationship, and you need to tell us where we are in the relationship. most guys don't know where they are at, so they will try to see what you let us get away with.
i just had the feeling that i should inform girls about this. and this was the only way to put it into a form of a question.
personally i'm not trying for sex in the relationship i am trying to get into but i seem to try to test my boundries (subconsciously). i'll rub her back, kiss her arm and cheek (not anything to over the top). basicly guys just want to kow where they are at. you need to tell us if we are going to far. we are not going to get mad (the good ones wont) we just need to know how close we are at the time.
if you feel unconfortable please tell us.
2006-07-23 19:39:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS: please answer some of my other questions, thank you.
2006-07-23 19:39:32 · update #1
I think that girls should tell a guy his boundaries. I mean, after all that IS how she would like to be treated. If u go too far and she gets mad its her fault for not setting boundaries. If she doesn't set boundaries then she probably wants u to go further but doesn't have the strenght to tell u her feelings. Most people wouldn't talk to a friend, telling them what they can and cannot do but COMMUNICATION is the best way. good luck
2006-07-24 05:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by Life Is Great 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i agree with this
some women don't say anything because they don't want to get their guy angry, or make their guy think that they are not ready or taht they are a coward for now wanting to go farther
i really do agree with you
while some women tell their men that that is enough
others don't say a word
we shoudl spread the news around
thanks
2006-07-24 02:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by citygirl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with ya at least you are one of the honest ones bout it---i guess the reason some women dont is cause they think the men will not like them or call them anymore if they dont have sex with them---that is how alot of men think--if we dont wanna have sex then you are not worth my time is how women think most of the time bout a man that is just trying to get closer so in return women think they are to have sex with men for them to like them
2006-07-24 02:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by blueeyed sexy blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and no...if you really love someone you shouldn't try to get away with anything, but if i really love someone i will let them get away with most things without saying anything unless it really upsets me, but if i just like them but we are in a relationship, i will just straight out tell them, and if they don't like it, well that's their problem...but that's just me...most people would probably disagree...
2006-07-24 02:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by pshh =] 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi guys i say that sexual relation is not to be allowed before the marriage it is a man or women
2006-07-24 03:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by rohit s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does anybody have any idea what he's talking about?
2006-07-24 02:44:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋