Family & Relationships - 21 July 2006

In essence I don't mind this as I like giving advice to all my friends. but she just does not listen. Her boyfriend is nice but they are just not compatible she is a complete pushover, doing all the housework and he doesn't lift a finger. He can be disrespectful but she never questions him on it. I give her advice (i.e. talk to him, discuss your problems) but she ignores me. Every6 months or so she's phone me crying her eyes out saying she's unhappy and that she's scared to be alone I tell her it's better to be alone then in a **** relationship and that she WILL find someone better but she says she would rather have second best then nothing. I'm at my wits end. I want to support her but if she won't listen what can I do!!! there is more background but would be here for years explaining it!!!

2006-07-21 01:44:39 · 12 answers · asked by Little minx 5 in Friends

How did you break the ice? What did you talk about?Did you know this person would eventually be your partner?Why?

2006-07-21 01:44:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-21 01:43:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-21 01:43:11 · 7 answers · asked by bangkok 2 in Friends

2006-07-21 01:42:23 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Anyone know of any good positions,,, be as graphic as you want I don't care or don't be but please answer it I can go to the books but from personal experience I just want to know. there's no section about sex and there should be.

2006-07-21 01:42:21 · 7 answers · asked by madasahornet82 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

16 YEARS OLD

2006-07-21 01:41:13 · 10 answers · asked by marija_S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-21 01:40:55 · 18 answers · asked by yoda_0072002 2 in Friends

It is 5:30 in the am.
Time for bed.
(yea, I know, but I work nights so...)
What is your bed time ritual?
How do you say good night to the ones you love?
Put the cat out?
Left side or right?
Radio on or off?
Check the locks first?
Scrunched the pillow up?
Hog the blankets?
Say a prayer?
Peek in, one last time, on the kids?
Wish you had kids to peek in on?
Kick the dog off the bed? Call him up onto the bed?
King size? Queen? Twin?
Milk before bed? water?
Bathroom run?
Little reading? TV?
Just lay in the dark thinking until you fall to sleep?
Dulling your brain with answering Yahoo! Answers?

Anyway, good night and good dream journeys.
Hope your rituals have you willing and ready when the Sand Man comes a'knockin'.

2006-07-21 01:40:35 · 17 answers · asked by The Chronicler 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I 've already tried doggy, missionary and on top with my bf...... we tried one another but I forget...and anyone else got any ideas?

2006-07-21 01:38:40 · 13 answers · asked by madasahornet82 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-21 01:37:47 · 13 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to have sex for the first time with my girl friend and i want it to be amazing please suggest moves and things i can do to make this an unforgetable experiance for her

2006-07-21 01:37:44 · 14 answers · asked by Paah Rehmat 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-21 01:37:40 · 14 answers · asked by be_hush 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-21 01:37:10 · 6 answers · asked by cheap_slut 1 in Weddings

Ok myself and this guy have been talkin.We've known each other for10 yrs. He's in the military overseas right now. Well everytime he's in town we talk. We flirt but never get to see each other bc of confliciting schedules. We both obviously have feelings for each other. He calls my mom his mother in law. Well we've been talkn lately and he e-mailed me and said "So are we gonna hook up?" Well like everyone knows it can mean alot of different things. I just wanted to know what you guys think it means. I know it can mean sex, dating, or just going to dinner. Which one do you think applies to my situation? By the way he won't be home for a year & it's not like we can have sex or go to dinner when we're 100000000 miles apart.

2006-07-21 01:34:41 · 12 answers · asked by tinkerbelle91586 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a boy 6 years ago, he was desperately in love with me then, i wasn't interested but kept him close because he is a great guy and i wanted his friendship... finally i ended up having a short reltionship with him but left him... then we kind of lost contact for a few years and now i rediscovered him at the beginning of this year, i found myself really attracted to him, we tried to rebond but he said it didn't work out for him anymore. i know him well so it wasn't a revenge or anything intended to hurt me. we haven't seen each other since, but now i started going to a fitness club but coincidence makes that he was going to the same club as i am, and when he approached to talk to me i was really surprised because he doesn't even live in the neighbourhood... but it seems that he still doesn't want anything else anymore... so what do i do then since i feel he would be perfect for me, thinking objectively, and i also have a huge crush on him... oh, i'm 23 so i'm not really a kid anymore

2006-07-21 01:33:12 · 14 answers · asked by KiKi 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-21 01:31:53 · 9 answers · asked by jsonbinaya 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife seems to be stuck in an indecisive mindframe. She says she loves me and I mean the world to her but she says that even if we divorce down the road she'd still feel the same way. We've only been married for three months and since coming back from our honeymoon she's seemed distant. Recently she told me all these things about overcoming our past problems and she doesn't believe things will be consistent and her heart isn't with "us" anymore. One day she'll say she is unsure, the next day she will say things that clearly mean its over, then she'll tell me not to take rejection as if it's always going to be this way and that things could get better. It's very confusing. She expects me to just be myself everyday but that's difficult when we're not making love and we seem more like roommates than we do husband and wife. Is this normal for women to go through when they are having emotional issues? Clearly she isn't happy now but will she ever be happy? What do I do to help?

2006-07-21 01:31:20 · 14 answers · asked by imagineus2night 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want the reply should be logical & hot.

2006-07-21 01:31:14 · 3 answers · asked by suzanne j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

First of all, please don't criticize me. I have heard it all, thought it all and I just need help letting go.

I had been part of love triangle for over a year. I was married when I met my married boyfriend. I divorced and he refused to sign his separation papers. His wife knew about me, and she tried to end things for him and tried to get me to back off.

The man went back and forth between the 2 of us and we both allowed it to happen. Both of us were willing to overlook his faults and cherished every day we had with him.

I do believe I pushed him back to his wife. I wasn't supportive of our relationship and constantly asked if he wanted to go home. I told him that people don't give up. Did I secretly want him to leave?

Well, he left here last week saying he loved me, etc. and we talked about our future. I haven't heard from him in over a week, so I assume he's home now. I won't call him there but I wanted closure. How can I just let go and accept it?

2006-07-21 01:28:31 · 16 answers · asked by torn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-21 01:27:36 · 14 answers · asked by >DraMa Qu33N< 4 in Family

Am approaching 30yrs, got a stable job as a secretary that pay okay and I feel that i should immigrate and start my life a fresh. I would love to have my immidiate family with me, get an okay job and move on. I have reached a point where nothing exists me much and feel that a new environment altogether will do me more good. I have achieved most of my dreams but need a new perspective of life. Please let me have ur ideas on this.

2006-07-21 01:27:04 · 4 answers · asked by perrynai 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do you let a boy know that you like hm without TELLing him that you like him?

2006-07-21 01:26:40 · 6 answers · asked by you're awesome :] 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have not done anything for three reasons1.all i could do is kick his *** 2.my mother asked me not to hurt him(i wouldnt anyway he is my little brother) 3.for the sake and sanity of my 4 children.....so any suggestions on how to keep my sanity ...and except it???

2006-07-21 01:26:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I would like to know about dark side and light side of divorced men.pls share yr experience with me that would be nice of you.thank you

2006-07-21 01:26:31 · 3 answers · asked by sweetie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was called to my sons school after he had been playing truant after which all was fine for two days when he had played truant again.but not only played truant but gone into another school and beaten another student.
his reply was that the boy had got his female friend drunk and nearly raped her very nearly.
should i be angry with my son as i also have a teenage girl as well.
i have punished him for the truancy but not for the beating.
whats your call

2006-07-21 01:26:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Alright, this quesztion does not go for those people who grew up around a certain race this is for people who lack reasoning.

Ok I have figured that some women only date a certain race either it be black or latina or white purple and whatever colors of people their are because they grew up around them or thatswhat their cacustomed to. but now their are idiotic Women who only date a certain race, and when you ask them why they say I dunno, If its the ***** well sorry to say sceince prooved those steroetypes wrong and the size is determined by genetics/ Height and fitness of the body the P*enis gets hard through blood flow, so does the muscles working out increases the blood flow and the penis size is determined by heat therefore more blood flow more heat therefore bigger dick make sense? well anyway Im not gonna listen to any people who say that race is better, unless she or he is a pornstar which has had lots of partners in all races my q is why do some women say I dunno when you ask

2006-07-21 01:24:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-07-21 01:23:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A little over 4 months ago, I thought my husband was cheating.
Then one day, I discovered panties (not mine) in the bed.
When I confronted him, he clearly stumbled and then said
that they were his.

They don't smell like him. I don't believe it.

Since then, I've been helping him see his "feminine" side.
I started out replacing all of his underwear with panties and
then started making him wear bras, which he does daily.

A couple of weeks ago, I started replacing his outwear - he
is now wearing Victoria Secret's Body for Work - pants,
blazer. He's terrified, going into work though he claims nobody
has noticed.

How much further do you think he'll let me push him before
he confesses, and how much further should I take this.

I've been "re-enforcing" the dressing up by only paying
sexual attention to him when he's wearing what I tell him too.
He's becoming very submissive.

Is this road going where I think its going? Where should I stop?
Its nice to be the one wearing the pants.

2006-07-21 01:21:15 · 22 answers · asked by Elana 7 in Marriage & Divorce

for f**ks sake stop talking in baby, child like voices and phrases? I mean you tell guys to grow up...then I see a 20+ year old woman talking like a 5 year old. Not all women do this, if the shoe fits wear it!

2006-07-21 01:20:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating