Family & Relationships - 21 July 2006

me and this guy have known each other for about a year or more, but recently we called it off. we never were in a serious relationship, but feelings were being expressed early on from his side. i never denied not liking him i just asked for time to have the same strong feelings from my side. from then on we hooked up alot, we never went out together i would just go to his house. recently i was told that this man has a baby on the way, after hearing this my feelings were in an uproar i was so upset, but i did ask him after cussing at him though. he never answered the question, but after that i was trying to call it quits, but i called him and asked him if he was ready to tell me the truth, he still did not answer, and nothing was resolved but the next day i did make arrangements to see him that night. well that did not happen, this is where everything explodes. but i rather not go into details about that. but since that night he called it quits. i cant get over him he is all i think abt

2006-07-21 09:47:34 · 4 answers · asked by Ms. problem 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im a handy man with a good heart why do women treet us like **** after they get what they want? and why do women play us, knowing that we are so dosprit to be loved by somone???

2006-07-21 09:45:46 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

(And If she is I have nothing against it) Go lesbians!

ps And I am straight too

2006-07-21 09:45:12 · 14 answers · asked by Eve 2 in Marriage & Divorce

can anybody tell me a poem to send to my girlfriend that has real bad trust and commitment issues

2006-07-21 09:45:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She has been with an older guy for two years now. He is 27 and she is 19. They go through their ups and downs like anyone else but he has a girl friend and he has no intention of breaking up with her to be with my co-worker what should she do? And she really loves him

2006-07-21 09:44:35 · 2 answers · asked by omenus 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4.5 years and we just bought a house, well it's 95-100 degrees during the day and I leave the A/C on, but I'm cheap so I turn it off at night, he chooses to sleep on the couch since it is much cooler downstairs and I sleep upstairs in my bed. It doesn't affect us in any way. There are other reasons too, like even if it wasn't warm upstairs, he would still sweat, and he moves around a lot, and i am the LIGHTEST sleeper ever, so neither of us would get good sleep. So we don't think it's a problem, but does anyone think there really is one ? Thank you

2006-07-21 09:44:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a bestfriend who is the sweetest person in the world and he is a police officer we been friends for quite some time now but he seems like he wants to be more than friends now because the things he say out of his mouth is annoying me as far as hitting on me lines and i really dont like it because all i think of him is my best friend nothing more even though he is a wonderful man and also very cute and musucler i take our friendship very seriously and i would like to keep it but it would hurt me if hes not my friend anymore please help

2006-07-21 09:43:54 · 7 answers · asked by honey bun 2 in Friends

2006-07-21 09:43:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I get tired of the guys making fun of me in the lockeroom , one guy called me a freak , said it was to big for my body ! What would you do ?

2006-07-21 09:43:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and i had our good and bad times, the problem is tat he never has time for me, never calls or comes to see me. i broke up with him cuz of tat but now i miss him so much and i love him with all of my heart. i wonna get back w/ him but i dont no if tats the right thing 2 do. all my friends hate him and tell me tat he treats me like crap and stuff. but what should i really do??

2006-07-21 09:43:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so Im back.

Ive decided to leave behind my bf who cheated on me.

but this other guy, Carl wants to go out with me. The problem is, he is so shallow-I think he thinks that peoples personality is reflected on first sight.

he can be so rude and shallow to my friends. I liked him at one time, but he kept insulting me and hurting me (although apparently, he liked me). Hes not abusive
or anything, he can just be hurtful. I would go out with him, but I dont want him to be rude anf I dont want to be in a cage again.

But I met a guy in my drivers ed class who I like. Problem: his parents are divorced, so he lives on the other side of the US for the school year. It sucks, but he wants to hang out and hes been staring at me and such and has been really nice. But in hanging out he also could have meant as friends.

Should I go with someone or stay single?

2006-07-21 09:43:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im soo confused ive been wiv my bf sence i was 16 six years now we have two wonderful children hes neva been a very loving person and it has always been me cuddling and kissing and giving all the affection and loving words ive finally had enoth and said i need him to be affectionate and loving back as i need 2 feel loved and needed in return hes says hes an emotional wreak and he says he wants to have a break but i have said its all or nothing so he said hes doesnt love me anymore and its not fair on me that i should get on with my life as im still young (hes 11 yrs older ) he thinks hes been holding me back from doing things i dont belive he doesnt love me anymore he cant just switch off hes love just like that i love him sooo much im in such a state as if i dont have him i have nothing his my life i know nothing else i have no other family im not sure that i can cope wivout him i need him soo much i dont know what to do :(

2006-07-21 09:42:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-21 09:42:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

of me leave your email

2006-07-21 09:42:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and me planned to have a kid ... on wendsay we found out i was pregnat since then i havent seen himm .. hes acting differnt and still claims everything is ok... his leaving on sat to go see his other baby in connicut and im in florida. and he dosnt even want to come say bye or anything he says hes tooo busyy...why whould he be doing this to me after i thought everything was goign to get better since i founf out the good new.s.... Does he feel bad cuase he nkows hes goign to cheat onme ... why would he change now... im so emotianl and i now i have to calm down cause its not goign to be good for the baby but i dunt know what to do ..-please help!

2006-07-21 09:41:28 · 25 answers · asked by ChuLAD3P0nC3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf is 46 I am 34. We are gay couple The bf cheated on me, because he felt alone in our 2.5 year relationship. I was working with my depression, and own issues and neglected his needs. I was cold and distant, said I loved him but did not SHOW it much. He said he cheated on me to fill a void. He has only known this new guy for a month. The new guy has been to our home and saw $$ signs and not the debit. We have a home together and several thousand dollars of credit card debit plus a new car. Both of us will be in financal ruin, if we bail on this relationship. I am more concerned with the emotional TOLL. He can not break the new guy loose, does not want to hurt him. OR ME. We have fought like cats and dogs cried and bawled like babies. We both KNOW we love each other. My depression is better, I feel alive and in control, now that I am better I hope its not too late to make a differnce. I can see love in his eyes. He can see it in mine too. What do we do?

2006-07-21 09:41:21 · 11 answers · asked by Evan 1 in Family

if you have been with somebody for two years (and you are both 20) and seriously talking about engagement and weddings and the like, would it be wrong for the guy to move into the girls apt? if you have done nearly everything a married couple does except fall asleep together and wake up together and you long to do that and spend every free minute of every day together, what would your take be on living together?

(he still lives with his parents and wants me to be with him when he talks to them about the living arrangements...should i have to be there with him? i know they will forbid it and look down upon us...)


so-right to live together...and do i have to be with him when he approaches his parents with the idea... ??????????

2006-07-21 09:41:04 · 16 answers · asked by jessie 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend usually spend an hour or 2 on the phone but theres sometimes that moment of silence. My boyfriend is a wonderful guy and I love to talk to him and he loves to talk to me, but we run out of things to say sometimes. I dont get to see him that much since both of us dont have our licenses yet, so I value our time on the phone. So how to I break the silence? What are the best conversation starters? How do I keep me and him talking for about 2 hours?

2006-07-21 09:40:48 · 2 answers · asked by sarah_gotdance 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

break off with a Perfect guy who wants marriage just because youre only 20 yrs old and think thats is too young...? Is it just dumb to leave such a great relationship simply bc of some misunderstandgins, and just party it up in college? Date a whole bunch of other guys, who are so not even half way to his level and dont want anything to do w his kind of seriousness... What if nothing better ever comes along... Am I right that its too young and I should keep looking, or am I throwing it away and should have just done everything possible to save it? only 20 !

2006-07-21 09:40:28 · 6 answers · asked by Jackie 4 in Singles & Dating

Here is the deal, I am having trust issues with women. As a man, I am an odd one, because sex really does not matter to me as is with the typical male. I am more into the mental stimulation and the more aesthetical sense of a relationship. However, even as that may be, I have been cheated on in many of my past relationships... Now i dont trust women at all... I am not or will I ever consider being Gay. I dont even tolerate being in the presence of another man... Anyhow, To trump all of my previous "issues", I am a shy person. Extremely reclusive. All of my past "romances" were either "Blind Dates" or the woman propositioned me... I am 27 and have yet to ask a woman out... And it is not only because I dont trust women, i am shy and reclusive... Is there something I could do to end all of this? I am on the brink of becoming a complete "hermit".....

2006-07-21 09:39:02 · 18 answers · asked by jinmetsu_rasetsu 2 in Singles & Dating

I have keys to all offices. Should I sneak into his office before he gets in and sit in his chair wearing nothing but sexy, lacy red lingerie..? (im 24 - just for the record)

2006-07-21 09:38:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-21 09:38:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

seeing her or taking care of your sick child? I was given a hard time about this, of course I stayed with my kid!

2006-07-21 09:38:16 · 7 answers · asked by fortuitousoppty 5 in Singles & Dating

hi everyone. My best friend just so happens to be my ex and we are now considering becoming roommates. Because of our living situation and college courses this is convienient. Is this a mistake .

2006-07-21 09:37:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-07-21 09:37:38 · 9 answers · asked by honeybeige2004 2 in Singles & Dating

this guy is kinda shy

2006-07-21 09:36:41 · 17 answers · asked by flo 2 in Singles & Dating

oksy, my husband and i seperated back in june and i decided to move back home to virginia and he stayed in dallas. we were going thru hard times and i just decided i need time to myself. (we have 3 kids) well he cheated and of course i got pissed off, but i forgave him because we have been thru alot in our relationship as well. okay so, we have moved past all the childish things and i plan on going back and working on our marriage. well today he calls me from work and he was on the girls phone that he cheated on me with. he said that she has been telling him how she feels about him and he says that he has told her that she was a mistake and that he wants to work things out with me, his wife. he also says that she has been buying him almost anything that he wants, but i don't get it, why would he call me form her phone? and i have caller id. i believe my husband but, from a guys point of view why would you call your wife from another womens phone.

2006-07-21 09:36:24 · 17 answers · asked by lateshafinley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im lookin for a red head ladie to chat with

2006-07-21 09:35:58 · 19 answers · asked by john s 1 in Singles & Dating

I get emails from people and they have yahoo screen names but I can't find where I can look up their profiles.

2006-07-21 09:34:45 · 2 answers · asked by Debbie R 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-21 09:34:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating