My boyfriend and i had our good and bad times, the problem is tat he never has time for me, never calls or comes to see me. i broke up with him cuz of tat but now i miss him so much and i love him with all of my heart. i wonna get back w/ him but i dont no if tats the right thing 2 do. all my friends hate him and tell me tat he treats me like crap and stuff. but what should i really do??
2006-07-21 09:43:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I reall love him and i dont no wat i can do without him. what if he says tat he'll change? should i give him a 2nd chance? i really want go get back w/ him. i've been crying for days and nights. i just really need him by my side but hes just never there for me. he doesnt care about me as much as i care about him. but should i give him a second chance?
2006-07-21 10:24:20 · update #1
No don't get back with him. If your friends hate him theres usually a good reason for it, in this case i'm guessing its because they saw how he treated you and looked at it objectively. At the end of the day everyone should make the right choice for themselves, not for someone else and believe me there will be someone else out there who had all the good points about your Ex but none of the bad points.
2006-07-21 09:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok. I've been there before. If he really wanted to be with you, then he would make time for you. All the excuses in the world are not good enough for that. Obviously he was cheating or just didn't like you. I have gotten over mine, so you will get over yours, too. You can find someone much better than that cause I have and I don't even think about that other guy. You did the right thing....cause I bet you were not even happy when you were with him!
2006-07-21 09:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, listen 2 your friends, if they say he treated u like crap, chances are he did! Love makes u blind and sometimes u cant see how your boyfriend treats you. Both ppl in the relationship should make an effort to see and talk to each other (equal on both sides), if he didnt have time for you then, he wont have time for you now. Move on, and if u have the urge to call him or randomly stop by his place, CALL YOUR FRIENDS!!!! whenever a guy says " baby i'll change" its a load of C.R.A.P!!!!!!!! (believe my i KNOW!)
2006-07-21 09:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by sarah_gotdance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the courting sounds like drama! You the two might desire to take an prolonged holiday or "destroy" faraway from one yet another without touch in any respect and then once you come back lower back talk on the subject of how you felt once you have been aside. After somebody commonly breaks up with somebody they actually cared for it takes a good month or 2 to initiate getting on with you existence.
2016-11-02 11:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I can COMPLETELY understand what you are going through. And the best thing is just to find a new guy to date. that is the ONLY thing that will help you. trust me hun, I ve been there done that. It is HARD and it is painful, but moving on is the right thing to do
2006-07-21 09:47:12 · answer #5 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, the easyest thing i can tell you to do is start talk to him and work your way up from there. but dont try and go to fast because it wont work. trust me im trying to get back together with one of my ex-girlfriends as we speak.
2006-07-21 10:03:38 · answer #6 · answered by army_boy0636 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave it alone if u don't have time that what happened to me. my ex didn't have time for me and he broke up with me but i got over it and u can do the same.
2006-07-21 09:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by flirt_love_baseball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get back with him. you need to be with a guy that will MAKE time for you. it hurts now but it'll go away i promise
2006-07-21 09:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by NAQ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are bigger and better fish out there, find one
2006-07-21 09:46:52 · answer #9 · answered by Mz. Tanning Bed Junkie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him
2006-07-21 09:47:42 · answer #10 · answered by sexi_lil_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋