hi everyone. My best friend just so happens to be my ex and we are now considering becoming roommates. Because of our living situation and college courses this is convienient. Is this a mistake .
2006-07-21 09:37:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Not at all. Its good if u feel comfortable with him.
2006-07-21 09:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by Aniroll 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Be honest with yourselves. Are you TRULY best friends and TRULY over each other? Is either of you in a new relationship with someone else? How would you feel if your friend brought someone home to stay overnight? How would your friend feel if you brought someone home? What if your friend's friend started practially living there (trust me, it happens)?
Do you have compatible styles for cleaning, maintenance, bill-paying, money management?
Can you communicate honestly and "adult-ly" about money, personal habits, and such?
It's can be hard to live with somebody you are not committed to (a bf or gf or spouse). Having your roommate be your best friend can help, but it has its stresses, too.
When I was in college I lived with my best friend (who stayed at her bf's all of the time) and another mutual friend (who had more $ than I and an annoying bf who was there a lot). It didn't work out.
Your school may have some resources on resolving or managing roommate conflicts if anything comes up.
Good luck!
2006-07-25 06:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by warehaus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not subject approximately it. So what if he further them? He may well be attempting to get at you, he won't be. the significant element is despite if or not you enable him. So why assume something? He must be including people to play Farmville with, or something like that. (i in my opinion comprehend a good sort of folk who like Farmville lots that they upload finished strangers just to get greater friends, ect) If he's stressful you inspite of his reasons, why not in elementary terms pass to his profile and block him? That way, you will not even see it whilst somebody provides him. you will not see his posts or the rest the two - subsequently, subject eradicated.
2016-11-02 11:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure you cover yourself with all the finances. If you have a lease, make sure his name is on the lease too. Just incase he leaves you stranded with the lease or tears up the place. Good luck.
2006-07-21 09:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. you must have an ugly past together or perhaps he will try to be with you again, it happened to me and it was horrible!
2006-07-21 09:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by ♫Pavic♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you don't want to screw him
2006-07-21 09:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋