Family & Relationships - 18 July 2006

I married for the wrong reasons. I got pregnant young and married. The one i loved left a year b4 to join the military. after my 3rd year of marriage, I wanted out but could not afford to leave. By the 12 th year we had grown apart and i was preparing to leave, but my spouse got sick. so i stayed to take care of him. I saw my old flame not too long ago. and it was as if we never departed. we could not talk because the spouse was there. My body is home, but my heart is somewhere else.

2006-07-18 12:29:21 · 7 answers · asked by ria 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you get out this zone?

2006-07-18 12:28:49 · 12 answers · asked by TBS 1 in Singles & Dating

is it ok for my ex to still love me and we still sleeping 2gether?
the problem is she dont wanna to get back together
so were sex friend?

2006-07-18 12:28:47 · 24 answers · asked by doodisignoff 2 in Singles & Dating

and if a woman wanted 2 men, that would make the men gay?

2006-07-18 12:27:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and was attracted to a guy, would you ask him if he wants to dance or wait till he makes the move? Is it true that if a girl really like a guy, she will do anything in her power to get with him?

2006-07-18 12:26:32 · 18 answers · asked by 120 IQ 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-18 12:26:21 · 12 answers · asked by daddy's gurl 101 2 in Family

My sister and mom when out on a vacation for a week and my brother in law was left all alone at the house. My sister called me a couple days to tell me that when they came back from their vacation she noticed that 2 family pictures were missing from the living room. One had my husband, my kids, and me, The other had my mom,aunt and sister. She just called me earlier to tell me that misteriously the picture with my family was put back in the same spot from where it disappeared. Know why would anyone do that. Do you think it could of been my brother in law. Or some mysterious ghost. I don't think it was a ghost, i really think it was my brother in law, but does any body have any idea to why he would do that. Maybe because we don't get along really good. Please give me ideas as to why someone would do something like this.

2006-07-18 12:25:43 · 5 answers · asked by ange!s26 2 in Family

I already graduated from college and want to move out of my parents' house. Where's the best place city and state to move to?

2006-07-18 12:25:39 · 11 answers · asked by Dreamyeyes 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do I love it soo much when I go to the beach and see hot guys oil themselves up with suntan oil ? It's soo sexy !
But, I'm definitly not gay !

2006-07-18 12:24:46 · 6 answers · asked by Evon 2 in Singles & Dating

Please help......?
I'm 13 and Live with my Father and my Step-Mother. I am not aloud to see or talk to my Real Mother unless Under Supervised Visitatation. Latlely I've been thinking of my Mom and want to talk to her. I have a counselor, but I feel unconfortable talking to her sometimes because she talks to my Step-mom too. I don't know what to do because I want to see my Mom but don't know who to go to. If I go to my Parents, they seem Angry and that makes me feel bad and makes me not wanna finish asking them. If I talk to my Counselor, I'm not sure if she'll do anything about it. (By the way: I don't usually want to see my Mom since I hate her newer Husband and she is just stupid. Not mental Retardation stupid. Just Stupid lol. Stupid decisions.) Thanks for your help. I appreciate it. And sorry If my Question is a little harder to understand.


If I want to write a letter i have to give it to the counselor and I think she has to read it.Or she will.My parents aren't abusive...

2006-07-18 12:23:58 · 20 answers · asked by slushie... 2 in Family

I just dated this incredible girl and we had nothing but an awesome time together. She used to date this guy (who was also her first boyfriend) who was controlling and verbally abusive. Everytime they broke up he said he was sorry and that things would be different this time (yeah right). They broke up about 3-4 times over. Her friends and parents hate him. She always used to tell me about how she could never be friends with him again (unlike me) and how she hated so many things about him. Now we've broken up and they're friends, however she isn't dating him nor really hanging out with him that much. She's basically shut me out of her life, although she really wanted to be friends and still hang out. I still get the feeling she really misses me (she has to!).

What should I do? I know move on, but there must be some way to get her back

2006-07-18 12:23:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my aunt thinks i'm the laziest person in the world...cuz' everytime she asks me to go somewhere...i have an excuse. but seriously..ice age? why in the world would i wanna see that? so im gonna need ANOTHER excuse..so she'll FINALLY get off my back.

would 'i slept in too late' work? or would she just blow up at that too? UGH. she annoys me.

2006-07-18 12:21:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-07-18 12:21:31 · 26 answers · asked by dancergrl5 1 in Singles & Dating

my whole family hates her but i think we are really good friends

2006-07-18 12:21:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

orgasm?

Details people details gets the points.
No haters please.
I was about 8yo in a tent with a friend and a Hustler mag. I still remember what she (centerfold)looked liked. btw I'm in my 30's.

2006-07-18 12:21:07 · 5 answers · asked by Handsup 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-18 12:21:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm the wicked witch of the west.

2006-07-18 12:20:40 · 20 answers · asked by Gobstopper5 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you have a choice of two nearly identical men, both relatively young (30's), both being equal in height, weight, both look good, both known to be good men and treat their women well, but one man is average in wealth, and the other is wealthy, which one would you want if you had a chance to have one or the other?

2006-07-18 12:19:45 · 9 answers · asked by dread pirate lavenderbeard 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend keeps his computer in his room. He has a webcam and the other night I noticed his aol buddy list were all women. In fact, instead of 'buddies' it says, 'Ladies'. He never tried to hide this from me which I think is a good thing but, I don't know if I should be worried about this. Also, I sent him my screen name but he never added me on there. The only reason I joined aol was to chat with him. What do you all think and would it bother you?

2006-07-18 12:18:59 · 69 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so it was prom night and I was at my prom dates house and got there a lil early. She was in the bathroom and i asked her mother if i could use the bathroom real quick while i waited on her. So the mother told me to use the bathroom downstairs in the basement. So i went and took a huge dump. Sadly enough there was no toilet paper and I didn't notice till after i was done. There were some clothes in the closet and i felt compelled to grab, maby a nice shirt or something...what would you do in this situation? BTW, it was my first night out with this girl

2006-07-18 12:18:25 · 13 answers · asked by Osama Bin Laden 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello,

People just wanna know,

I'm not being malicious just wanna know

It is not a big thing to me I love girls in other ways

Feel that they are used just for this thing sometimes!!

Thank-you for opinions!!

2006-07-18 12:16:55 · 53 answers · asked by East Bay Punk 4 in Singles & Dating

do you think they should keep only white girls on the cover all women are created equal so please don't put anything negative.

2006-07-18 12:16:52 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Natasha♥ 4 in Friends

at first my friends would just joke around and call me a "selfish spioled *****!" but now im sick of it! now every1 calls me that! even my grand parents!!buts its not my fault! its my parents fault! okay u guys does this sound spoiled for a 14 yr old?on christmas i got a recordable dvd player, and cable in my room plus other clothes, hot hand bags, and so on ,graduaton i got a lab top, and a video ipod, then i just got a digiatl camera which i didnt ask for! so am i spoiled or is my parents fault!

2006-07-18 12:15:39 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

For the Guys and the Ladies...

What pick up lines work the best, and what ones are the worst to use if any?

Also, when it comes to making moves... what should a guy wait for (signals) before doing so? And how should he start?

Preferences ladies to help us out?

2006-07-18 12:14:12 · 4 answers · asked by benh316 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-18 12:13:32 · 30 answers · asked by Toadbaboad 2 in Singles & Dating

this girl and I are extremely close friends who are more than friends, best friends (we have showered together before, we even sleep together alot (Not screwing) we have open relationship with each other and yes we have been sexual several times now I am 5'5" and about 165 LBS short styled hair got a high paying job for a single man over 40 grand a year, and am always there for here emotionally support and nurture here, but I truly love her and want to be with her for good no dont worry i dont offer ultamatums or pressure her, but she thinks im not attractive enough for her. she says that means more than physically but she is about 5'7" and weighs about 170 LBS and breaks out in the face sometimes you think she is being shallow or picky or being immature cause she is only 22 im older by a few years

2006-07-18 12:12:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you show someone you truly care and your there?

2006-07-18 12:11:50 · 14 answers · asked by C-Low 2 in Singles & Dating

I had no problems before with it because a trusted him, but lately i feel upset about it. It's not like he's with them all the time because every girl knows me but i also know you can't trust women around a husband that thinks he's the bomb!! Well my friends tell me I'm very beautiful and that any man would like to be my friend. I have given a lot of thinking in paying back time but i don't know why men don't seem intrested. Now my friends tell me that my looks are intimidating and that with out me knowing im sending a signal of already taken.Can someone tell me if this comments are true and should i try to make my husband feel the sameway? I'm very much in love with him but all he tells me that it's not his fault that he his a great guy!!!!

2006-07-18 12:11:50 · 16 answers · asked by flaca 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

he only seems to be able to reach orgasm if I stroke him for a long time with my hands. I don't mind doing this but I just wish he could do it while having intercourse.. Can I do anything to help him?? We have only been married since May and are just learning how each other work. I'm not complaining at all but just need to know if its normal...I have been married before and never had that happen it was always the other way around " He had trouble waiting for me". Any advice will be appriciated...thanks

2006-07-18 12:11:25 · 5 answers · asked by leelee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-18 12:11:12 · 8 answers · asked by deanna9771 1 in Family