Hello,
People just wanna know,
I'm not being malicious just wanna know
It is not a big thing to me I love girls in other ways
Feel that they are used just for this thing sometimes!!
Thank-you for opinions!!
2006-07-18 12:16:55 · 53 answers · asked by East Bay Punk 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
XXXXX sex is not as important to people as making love is. There is a difference you know. Prostitutes have sex. People who have one night stands, have sex. Young kids who are experiencing their bodies for the first time, have sex. Sex is when you have no real, emotional attachment to the person. Lust is sex. Making love is expressing your love to your mate. Making love surpasses any sex you can ever have with anyone. In a relationship between two people making love is important because it takes you to a place emotionally, mentally, physically where nothing else can take you. And it fulfills a part of your senses that nothing else comes close to fulfilling. You have to experience real love making to understanf where I am coming from. This kind of love making can not be measured, or purchased, or forced. This is the kind of love I have for my husband. One that nothing can puncture. Making love to eachother is our time to express our feelings for eachother. The looks that are exchanged by the two of us, the gentle touches and moans are just icing. No sex is not important to us. Making love is. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-18 12:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 6⤊ 4⤋
I don't know if sex is important to everyone, OK it is to most people. It is another way to express emotion.Sex is part of nature it is a natural act It wasn't about pleasure but for reproduction. Some people just have sex for the quick gratification that they get from the act of sex. Some people do it for the simple reason to see what the hype is all about. And others it is a sacred thing to have sex with somebody you truly love it is an act of love or at least it should be. What ever the reason is just be safe.
*Gracie
2006-07-18 13:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by gracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me there is a difference between two people having sex and two people making love. Sex is overrated, in the sense that it is everywhere today, on tv, on paper in the media... it has so much power that it is actually scary. But the actual act of sex between two people that really love each other (yes I know, sounds too romantic but I still beleive there are a few couples like that out there) is a totaly different experience than "sex" and cannot be compared.
I do know what you mean though, and it's nice to see that there are people, maybe a few, that hold the same views as you. Thanks for respecting us women.
2006-07-19 01:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no warmth, love or affection without sex.
It drives us in most things we do ie to try and get someoen to love us...
Be it fashion design, sports to be dominant and impress the opposite sex, dance (again to show fitness and readiness to mate),
Girls wareing hot clothes
Guys driving round in the falshy motors trying ot impress girls...
Then later the result of sex ie babies, families, you.
If daddy did not think your mum had nice **** and wanted to feel her up, fondle her boobs, hand up skirt and shag her... they would not have been born and tyou would not be here...
Likewise your kids will do the same...
Why get rich?
Impress opposite sex.
Graphitti artists pretty much everything is to establish ourselves as an impressive mate then look after the result...
No warmth or love withotu a sexual reltionship as that only goes to your friends boyfriend.
No closeness,
No self esteem, no confidence, self worth or respect from others or maturing...
Without it you are nothing and live your life in pain, hurt and bitterness seeing all happy around you
2006-07-18 12:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you like the feeling? Is there something wrong with you, maybe?
Well I am obviously NOT a guy and I enjoy sex. It is not more important than e.g. LOVE but it is more important to me than my job. Humans are made to have sex with each other, and if both want it, why not? There's no problem with having sex, IMHO there are only problems without sex!
2006-07-18 12:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ sannah ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's awesome. It can bond two people together in a way that only they will understand. It is an expression of love and it's so powerful that it can create human life. Plus nothing really compares to it...except maybe chocolate.....mmmm
By the way love the haircut, fohawks are so hot!
2006-07-18 12:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by LilLiE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no closer connection between two people then sex. I think that's why people value it so much. People want that instant love, what better way then to jump into bed. Although as statistics proove wrong way to go for a lasting relationship. Friends, married then lovers
2006-07-18 12:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by what do you think? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Society has pounded sex into our heads, especially men. Look at the tv commercials, magazine ads, movies, etc - it all revolves around sex. Sex isn't that important as compared with other things, but people view it as the #1 thing because they have been programmed to.
2006-07-18 12:19:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is one of the most important aspects of life, it allows procreation, it is a way of sharing your love and affection with someone and its an excellent way to pass the time! Most women enjoy sex as much as men do. Although there are women out there who just have sex in order to please somebody else and end up getting used, but in my view that's just asking for it, act like a doormat and you will be treated as one. Personally though, sex is very important to me...
2006-07-18 13:24:58 · answer #9 · answered by Delle C. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is a purpose to life, it is to create more life. That means sex. It's why guppies have fancy tails. It's why male lions chase away other male lions from the pride. It's why bees work selflessly to protect and feed their queen. The genes must be passed on! If sex wasn't important to people, we wouldn't be here.
2006-07-18 12:25:27 · answer #10 · answered by Spot! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people will say that relationships arent based around sex. like its 5% of their relationship.
as others may say. thats what hold the relationship together.
but I SAY THAT WRONG. sex shouldnt be everything. people get so used to sex because one they have it all the time and its wierd that they havent had it in a long time. so they crave for more.
but seriously i dont know why. were just human.
2006-07-18 12:22:07 · answer #11 · answered by allie laught alot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋