this girl and I are extremely close friends who are more than friends, best friends (we have showered together before, we even sleep together alot (Not screwing) we have open relationship with each other and yes we have been sexual several times now I am 5'5" and about 165 LBS short styled hair got a high paying job for a single man over 40 grand a year, and am always there for here emotionally support and nurture here, but I truly love her and want to be with her for good no dont worry i dont offer ultamatums or pressure her, but she thinks im not attractive enough for her. she says that means more than physically but she is about 5'7" and weighs about 170 LBS and breaks out in the face sometimes you think she is being shallow or picky or being immature cause she is only 22 im older by a few years
2006-07-18 12:12:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey hey hey who said im over 40 stop the presses
im only 32 we are not that far apart in age geez!
2006-07-18 12:34:55 · update #1
justaskme person you go to hell you dont know me or anything about me dont flatter your b*tch*ss self you are a punk and a loser go F**k your self
2006-07-18 12:36:51 · update #2
She's just being shallow right now. It seems to me she's using you the way you have portrayed it. I say move on, start dating around. I am almost willing to guarantee that if you start seeing other people, envy will be abound!
2006-07-18 12:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by Dee M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are flattered by the fact that a young girl is sleeping with you. She thinks you are not attractive enough for her.I'd tell her where to go! You're attractive enough to her to get laid. She is using you for service because she sounds like she isn't getting it anywhere else because of her looks. Also is she getting money from you, pardon me but why else would a 22 year old be interested in someone over 40 with a good paying position. Find a woman who is interested in y ou for what you are and who you have become not a user. You sound like you are a really nice fella. Drop her and get a WOMAN who is deserving of you.
2006-07-18 19:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, dude, you are okay to be with in the most intimate of ways, but you're not good enough to make a commitment to???? What the heck is that???? I am going to suggest that you may be more than a few years older than she, and she is looking for someone more her own age. She is bangin' boots with you until her Prince comes along, and you pay for all the play. I say try finding someone more into who you are than what you can give to her. Not only will you be happier, but probably richer too. The relationship you are in is totally one sided emotionally. Not good for you!!! I wish you the best. It's hard but move on. Nana
2006-07-18 19:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe shes afraid to cross the line from what she considers a friend to something more permanent. If you weren't attractive enough I doubt she would be as intimate. Since you are best freinds you should be able to talk to her about anything even what your feeling now. If your not afraid of possibly losing her as a freind then just tell her that your interested in a dating relationship and nothing more than that (marriage). If it doesn't work you two could continue to be friends or whatever the two of you decide is best.
2006-07-18 19:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am an older guy and i agree with caitlyn's mommy. i've been there for at least part of what you discribe. i found out the hard way just how much i really ment to my so called friend. she really sounds alot lot my old friend. so take it from some one who has been there and done that. move on. it may hurt some now but it will hurt alot more later when it jumps up and bights you. good luck.
2006-07-18 19:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by dennis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
humm not sure what to think.sounds like she's alittle bit of all three.because she should love whats on the inside.as well as whats on the outside.but whats on the inside counts more.she should love you for you and not care if ur attractive enough for her.cause if i read correctly she sometimes brakes out in the face alittle.and you love or like her for her right?good luck
2006-07-18 19:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she is ready to be in a committed relationship and she only uses you for all that you let her. To me it looks like she is just walking all over you.
2006-07-18 19:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by Caitlyn's Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she being shallow and immature, one day she'll see she makes a mistake, you seem like a great catch to me. take your mind off of her, don't let this issue bother you anymore.
2006-07-18 19:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by Patricia A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO @ this question.......I do not believe that you or her is either 22 or anwhere near that age.......but if you are tell her ugly people need some loving too :)
2006-07-18 19:20:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesn' t want you leave her alone. there are plenty of fish in the sea. she'll see what a good thing she missed out on eventually.
2006-07-18 19:17:56 · answer #10 · answered by Twin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋