he only seems to be able to reach orgasm if I stroke him for a long time with my hands. I don't mind doing this but I just wish he could do it while having intercourse.. Can I do anything to help him?? We have only been married since May and are just learning how each other work. I'm not complaining at all but just need to know if its normal...I have been married before and never had that happen it was always the other way around " He had trouble waiting for me". Any advice will be appriciated...thanks
2006-07-18 12:11:25 · 5 answers · asked by leelee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try ONLY focusing on him and not letting him focus on if you reach itor not.
2006-07-18 12:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by Caitlyn's Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say try more kegal exercises. In mid stream of urinating stop and do this a couple of times during every urine. This help to tighten the muscles around the vaginal opening.
2006-07-18 12:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by 4X4 Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's just a habit he's got himself into...try and work it so that your stroking and your getting your action too,use a wide variety .. try new possies and maybe ride him with your legs squeezed 2gether..LOL there are ways to stroke him without your hands,, try doggie you do all the stroking with your movements.. experiment
2006-07-18 12:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy is different, and maybe he isn't as sensitive as your first husband.
2006-07-18 12:23:34 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Grudge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY, BLOW HIM!
2006-07-18 12:49:04 · answer #5 · answered by Pussycat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋