I've been engaged for 5 years, she seems in no hurry to marry me. She doesn't work and has 2 kids that I support. She doesn't really seem like she's into me, but she does include me in all family functions. She doesn't like sex, and isn't really interested in giving me the things that I want. But she does let me "get mine" usually once a week- "hurry up you've got 5 minutes"-not exactly romantic. She gets terrible PMS but has no desire to see a doctor to try to improve the situation. Her kids come first, which is understandable, but I'm not given any parental discretion and everything that is mine is also theirs according to her. I feel that I have nothing of my own and am not given the proper respect. I would leave except for the fact that she can't support herself or her kids. I feel too guilty to leave her. To some degree, in her own way, I think she does care about me. She set a date for the wedding but it was because I owed a lot in taxes this year. What do I do?
2006-06-30
03:32:47
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