Okay my friend and I have been friends for most of our lives. For some reason I'm the one that supports him through like everything and he's barely there when I need him. He has his moments of being a great person though, but he covers that up a lot. I love him to death and he know this, but I wonders if he loves me or even cares about me. Him and I went through similar situations when we had death in the family, but when I tried to be there for him he acted like he didn't need me. He denied it though. So afterwards we really didn't talk. I had joked way before of him needing me and that I didn't need him, but he knew I was only joking. Then the same thing happened to me and I guess since we weren't talking he wasn't there for me. Not saying I wanted him to be because I was trying to be strong, but it would have been nice. Since we haven't still been talking. I sent him a message of how I felt and all, but there was no reply. So what should I do?
2006-06-30 03:41:00 · 2 answers · asked by SouthernBelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am sorry you have been going through so much. It sounds to me like he is a user, and only wants you around when he needs you.
If he has not responded to your message, take that as your answer and move on. You did your best with him, and he was not able to reciprocate and treat you like a friend too.
It is sad, but friends grow apart, and friendships end. Concentrate on meeting new people and cultivating new friendships rather than second guessing your relationship with him and trying to make it work when clearly he is not trying with you.
Good luck!! It sounds like you will make a good friend that anyone would be lucky to have in their life.
2006-06-30 03:48:25 · answer #1 · answered by ItsJustMe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him face to face that you love him, not in an e-mail .
2006-06-30 10:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋