Ok my girlfriend is obsessed with Joaquin Phoenix. You know that guy from the village and signs. Last night I was having sex with my girlfirend. I was on top and she kinda twisted over and started riding me hard. She hadn't ever done that before, she said she was fixing to c um. When she started to c um she called me Joaquin!!!!!!!! Well when I finished she either forgotten she said it or she is acting. Is that normal? What should i do??? Should i break up with her? I mean it was the best sex I have had with her. So idk what to do.
HELP
2006-06-30 03:25:45 · 40 answers · asked by Howard L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
AAAA hahahahaha That is so funny!
Break up with her!
2006-06-30 03:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hey sweets,
First off... I have no clue as to who Joaquin Phoenix is but if this guy is just a celebrity, and I say JUST because in our world people look at them as if they are Gods great gift to earth (like your girlfriend does). When in all reality they are just people. It sounds to me as if this is just a silly crush on a celebrity. Many people have them but not me. I am from NYC and we see celebrities everyday just on the streets so it's nothing to us BUT maybe for your girlfriend its more of an infatuation with someone that she knows she could never have. I wouldn't break up with her. Trust me... this won't be the last crush she will have but don't worry. It will probably be another celebrity that she can't have and you can get the good end of the stick (the bedroom action) LMAO....
Good Luck
2006-06-30 03:35:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think Joaquin is HOT too, especially as Johnny Cash in "Walk the Line" and I would DEFINATELY without thinking twice about it have sex with him. That is a normal healthy fantasy that sadly will never come true. However, your gf is having a non-healthy fantasy about him that has caused harm in your real relationship.
Ask yourself, if she called out someone else's name, not famous, how that would make you feel? Should the fact that he's famous make a difference? She was "*******" him and not making love you to. You have to determine for yourself if you can or want to deal with that.
Good luck.
2006-06-30 03:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your girlfriend probably has no chance of ever meeting Joaquin Phoenix and all of this is just fantasy, but you should probably break up with her. If she's calling you someone else's name, even if it is someone she doesn't even know, that's a bad sign.
2006-06-30 03:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by writeroftheyear1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it's not like she will ever get with him anyway and the way I see it, she is doing nothing wrong. You can talk with her about it but I feel it is just like getting off while watching a porn video(which I am sure you have done a time or two) but if it really bugs you aske her not to do it and let her know it hurt your feelings. I wouldn't worry to much though!
2006-06-30 03:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by Jakesmama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you rather she was having sex with Joaquin and calling out your name?
2006-06-30 03:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy? no way ...look people has fantasy she is not phisically making love with no one besides you .....and she is having great nights ...why you do not play the same roll and dress as Joaquin and some other nights she can be j-ello please there's another kind of problems you should consider
2006-06-30 03:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by Yami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with her??? WHY????????? you could use that for your advantage. do you think she is ever going to get joaquin phoenix?? what is the big deal???? you NEVER fantasize about ANYONE during sex?
2006-06-30 04:10:45 · answer #8 · answered by rryseloki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until you two were having sex again then i woulld scream out a name of a mutual friend and see how she acts then explain how it made u feel when she did it to you
2006-06-30 03:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by rebecca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use her fantasies to your advantage hon. You said it was the best sex you'd ever had with her soooooooo...... I'd be renting some movies with him in them to get her fired up. Don't forget Ladder 49. She'll definetly ride that pony after that one. lol
2006-06-30 03:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by sparkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, don't break up with her but talk to her about it. This phoenix guy is untouchable and an actor that she fantasizes about and should not impact anything on your relationship. I know for a fact that you have a star that you fantasize about everyone does. Talk to her about it.
2006-06-30 03:34:15 · answer #11 · answered by Moon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋