there is a guy who likes me but i just want to be friends. He is a really nice guy but i want friendship first. I knew him for about 3 or 4 years though
2006-06-30 03:36:49 · 14 answers · asked by Emily R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well you should remain his friend even if he does have feelings for you, and maybe just go out on one date to dinner or somthing, and if sparks fly then I would definatly pursue him, but if you still don't feel anything then I guess it just wasn't ment to be and you could tell him how you feel and hopfully he will understand. But if he doesn't understand then I guess he wasn't a good enough friend in the first place.
2006-06-30 03:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by lost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, men are not the friends type. We always want more, especially after that length of time. There is nothing you can do to change that or ease his pain in not being able to have you as his girlfriend. Dont we all wish we could live like "friends" the TV show.....but even they started to date each other.
2006-06-30 03:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by Veleno45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like u been friends long time and u probably don't want to mess that up, so if u friendship means anything to him he'll understand.
2006-06-30 03:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by msfortier01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him about your feelings if he wants more and can't handle being just friends it would be time to pull away from him as it might not cause a problem today but it may cause problems later, just watch for signs to make sure he isn't trying to win you over.
2006-06-30 04:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by uniroyalfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that the friendship mean a lot to you and he mean a lot to but you want to be just good friend for some time
2006-06-30 03:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you want to remain friends. Respect that he likes you, but let him know you just don't feel the same way. You don't owe him any explanations, and you don't need to go out with him if you don't want to. Just don't lead him on.
2006-06-30 03:39:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you just told us maybe not so blunt.
Communication is everything
And after you tell him acturally be friends call him to
hang out
Dont exclude him form you life.
2006-06-30 03:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you clearly feeling for him only friendship which can not be deeper relation?
If this is the case, brake his heart the soonest possible!
2006-06-30 04:37:46 · answer #8 · answered by soubassakis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know up front that you are not ready to commit to a relationship yet. Then things can progress if it works out. Good luck.
2006-06-30 03:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by noseygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with him and if doesnt want to be just friends then forget about him just tell him you want to be friends first and then see what happens from there
2006-06-30 03:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by doodle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋