border fighting commanding 300 soldiers directly under him. He came back on leave and found that his wife was having an affair with a fellow officer and someone else. A lot of crap was on the computer too. He has been so depressed since then he has started drinking heavily and wants to go back to the border. Our mother tried to talk to his wife to talk things out with six people being around - her parents and she, my mother, my brother and I. She has refused this offer and also the offer for a divorce on mutual grounds. His wife has made it clear that she will not divorce him but wants a seperation. This is hitting below the belt as she knows he is well off and by not giving into the divorce she will have access to everything he has.I am the eldest in our home have managed to keep him calm as he is too depressed.If he goes back to the border, we are worried he may commit some some mistake that could take take his life or endager those of his men which would spell disaster to all. help!
2006-06-27
01:27:38
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livingonthinice
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Marriage & Divorce