Family & Relationships - 26 June 2006

This fast pace world of visual and audio as well as capitalist materialism has changed the human focus on marriage. I think that we are now marrying for what we can get out of marriage and not what we can add to it. We certainly are not marrying for procreation because for many of us, we can do that as singles. We are not marrying for love because often love withers on the vine. We are not marrying to grow old with a precious partner because once those good looks are gone then we seek out a newer, sexier model. We will marry for money in a heartbeat and we do love our live-in trophys.

2006-06-26 19:09:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just dont know! We ahve been together for 6 years, married 4, and I just feel so empty. We have a 2 year old that takes up most of my time. He works full time, and when he gets home he goes straight for the TV or the computer. The olny time he wants to make love is when it's good for him. The only passionate kisses I get anymore are when he's " in the mood". I've tried adding new stuff in the bedroom, but he's not interested. He actually got mad that I bought "toys". I feel like he's not inlove with me anymore, and just stays because I'm a last resort. I've told him tis time and time again, but still there's no change. I need help! I feel so sad.

Thanks for letting me vent, I could use all the advise you all have.

2006-06-26 19:09:25 · 7 answers · asked by Rachel C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

love

2006-06-26 19:08:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-26 19:07:47 · 11 answers · asked by Laney 1 in Singles & Dating

girls if u wanted to date, where would you go to find a guy?

2006-06-26 19:06:59 · 11 answers · asked by Kurious 2 in Singles & Dating

I am running into two major crisis right now. (i'll call the girls A, and B) I like A for quite a long time now, sometime i feel like A does not like me at all and sometime i feel that she do like me. It just a mix feeling. And for B, i just know her and we've been talking with each other and i seriously feel that she have feeling for me, there are a lot of signals indicated that. I think it was because i look like her ex boyfriend(that's what she told me) What should i do? I really like A though. Should i just ignore B and just focus on A?

2006-06-26 19:06:38 · 5 answers · asked by a9113257311 3 in Singles & Dating

How do you know if some one you like, likes you back? Theres this boy in my class who i really like, but i don't know if he likes me! S.O.S!!!!!!!

2006-06-26 19:06:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-06-26 19:06:15 · 12 answers · asked by r j 1 in Singles & Dating

My son is coming up to 9yrs old. I have 3 children in all 2 girls and a boy. My son hasnt been getting on with his mother for over a year. I have talked to his mother and asked her to talk tohim about it. However she hasnt. It has not escalated to the point that for the last 2 months my son has asked to live with me. firslty i though he was just angree at her. However he says he really misses me and wants to live with me. I told him about the implications ie not seeing his mother veryday or his sisters and he would have to change school. But he his determined thats what he wants to do. His mother will not allow this and he his dreadfully uspset. Not help by his mother telling him thats he letting her down and is so ungrateful. My girls seem to be happy at home. But does my son have any rights at 8yrs old to make a decision like that or is there nything i can do. I understand the childs view is now regarded as very important and i feel my wife is psychologically abusing my son.

2006-06-26 19:02:01 · 9 answers · asked by Chris p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Shedosent have very much jewlery even though she is rich.

2006-06-26 19:01:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

trying to find a long lost Great granfather

2006-06-26 19:00:46 · 1 answers · asked by johnandmig 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have only been together for a 1 1/2 and I think its too soon. I would like to know if anyone else has been in this situation? Could you give me any advise?

2006-06-26 18:59:36 · 12 answers · asked by Redonk 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The girlfriend took 25 yrs of a heartache away, she can deal with his cheating, although he convinced her , i was the bad one

2006-06-26 18:58:39 · 13 answers · asked by kaceywhat2u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How many years?

2006-06-26 18:58:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-26 18:57:02 · 7 answers · asked by tammy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Take note your the only person who knows how to swim. Give your reasons why you choose that person first.

2006-06-26 18:57:00 · 17 answers · asked by purplepatch 2 in Family

For informational purposes only....are you male or female? Wondering if there's a correlation between the sexes.

2006-06-26 18:56:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and I love him very much. We are still both rather young... I'm 18 and he's 20. Anyways, when it comes to sex, I'm more shy and he... let's just say he watches a lot a porn... so he wants to alway stry out these kinky things. A lot of the time, it just goes straight against my character (not morals..kind.. how I act) and so I can never seem to feel comfortable pretending to be something I'm not. I'm not totally against the idea, but I always tell him "wait until we are older when we actually need that spark... ect" and that I am not comfortable doing it, but he still demands it. He even puts up certain dates for me to do it now... He will say "Okay you haven't done "x" in a while, so do it by next week". It's really frustrating because I feel like I can't please him, and I kind of feel selfish for not doing what he wants (because trust me.. he gives me more than enough "lovin"). What should I do to feel more comfortable??

2006-06-26 18:56:37 · 14 answers · asked by MesChatons 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What's the deal with these incest related questions? And how come these people aren't getting any professional help?

2006-06-26 18:56:26 · 4 answers · asked by choosinghappiness 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Have your parents (mom, dad, or both) ever embarrassed you? What did they do?

2006-06-26 18:56:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

without it always having to be about hunting or baseball?

2006-06-26 18:56:02 · 4 answers · asked by ~p♥kes~ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-26 18:55:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone wants or needs to be in a serious relationship, WHY?

2006-06-26 18:55:51 · 11 answers · asked by lizzy_jones2005 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, we are both bossy. So are the kids. So, what is the best advice for me as the stay-at-home-mom who decided to be the stay-at-home mom after agreeing to work full time so is conflicted about being bossed and accepting bossiness......doing what I'm told without any argument is good for my boys to see now because kids learn by example, however, I doubt by the time they are men that there will be any women in the entire universe that happily do what they are told. Advice?

2006-06-26 18:55:45 · 4 answers · asked by sgeorges13 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently went out with a black guy who is 39 yrs old. i never dated a black guy before and I was shocked by how BIG he was. It was enormous, almost scary. I've heard rumors about black guys but never thought it was true but now I definitely think it is. I can see how many white girls prefer black men if many are like this.

2006-06-26 18:55:45 · 13 answers · asked by lea c 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 59 year old male. My wife has not wanted to have sex with me for 4 years. Seems like I never have enouf money. Whwn we run out of money she thinks it is my fault and always wants more. She is a queen of her red hat club and goes out with the girls once a month. I nwver have the money for the things I want and set at home all the time. I am retired and on disibility. My wife has not had to work over part time for years. My wife thinks I should kiss and hug her. But I haven't felt like it since we stop having sex. I don't think I want to leave my wife. What should I do ?

2006-06-26 18:55:13 · 12 answers · asked by ldp999000 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am serious!

2006-06-26 18:53:55 · 19 answers · asked by momofoneson 3 in Singles & Dating

My Man says he loves me and he wouldn't be here if he didn't. But this female called our house for him and he has been talking to her while I am away from the house. He said one of his friends gave her the number but he still has been talking to her. I pulled my phone bill and her number is on there numerous of times. I called her and she said that they were just friends. When I ask him about it he stated that a female is not worth messing up his home and I'm insecure I should trust him bcuz he is not out there like that. I am going crazy wondering what the hell he is doing while I am away from him. but at the same time I don't want to mess up a good thing by jumping to conclusions what should I do?

2006-06-26 18:53:13 · 6 answers · asked by kiwikofii 2 in Singles & Dating

If you had a man (call him X) and X is emailing a girl while you were sleeping, and asking her for full body pictures. However, X tells you it is innocent and he had no intentions of taking it further, and that he was only curious on what she looked like, but thought she was pretty. Would you get mad about that?

2006-06-26 18:51:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you will marry what would you expect or what would be the greatest challenges that you should expect.

2006-06-26 18:48:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce