The girlfriend took 25 yrs of a heartache away, she can deal with his cheating, although he convinced her , i was the bad one
2006-06-26 18:58:39 · 13 answers · asked by kaceywhat2u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why do you care what she thinks? If you know the truth, then so what? Leave them to each other.
2006-06-26 19:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jennylee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say she took 25yrs of heartache away. Why did you wait so long? Don't try to convince her or even talk to her. Cut all your ties w/ him. Ignore them both. If you must have a relationship w/ her for some reason more issue will follow. This is just the beginning. Before you know it she will be calling you for advice then stabbing you in the back w/ him. You will not win in the end. The only way is to ignore them both.Get over him.
2006-06-27 02:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by LadyRedWild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't make a little pill that will take away her suspicions and replace them with trust.
besides, she's right, isn't she, he CAN'T STAY FAITHFUL. You need to wise her up and say he never really goes backwards to old flames but always is looking for a NEW score -- that'll scare her once she finally understands that she's the boring old woman in his life now!
Good luck -- I doubt she's much of a realist, somehow.
2006-06-27 02:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her home and cell numbers blocked from your home phone....oh....and ditto for your cellphone too. Actually, you can merely ignore cellphone calls.
That'll give you some peace n quiet. And avoid ALL contact with the sneaky ol' ex as well. Eventually, the current new lady in his life will realize you really don't want him back.
2006-06-27 02:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, ignorance is bliss, I am sure he has painted her a very good picture of why you sucked and he was perfect. Bottom line, if she still thinks that you want him back he is probably giving her signs that he still wants you. If you are not messing with him, and he is done with you she would have no reason to be insecure, obviously he is sending mixed signals. Just tell her to screw off.....
2006-06-27 02:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by simplyfabulous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her make her mistake of being with a loser. Then, when she comes crying to you that HE was the dog, feel free to rub it in her face that you warned her. Out of curiosity though....if he was such a headache, why are you still talking to him? I understand that it can be hard to let go of all those years together, but anytime you feel the urge to see him, just remind yourself of all the terrible crud he put you through. That's what I did with my ex!
2006-06-27 02:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by pink_phish22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of the picture. To her you will always be a threat and if he was such heartache why do you continue to talk to him let him go and let them go on with their lives peacefully and you go do the same!
2006-06-27 02:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore both of them and let them know that if either one of them bothers you again you are going to file a protective order against both of them because u do not have time for their garbage. if either one of them bother u again file it with the police and let them know that u are being stalked. wanna bet u will be left alone and his or her ex girlfriend will get the message u want nothing to do with either of them and problem solved good luck
2006-06-27 02:03:25 · answer #8 · answered by wedjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut off all contact with both of them. Block their calls from your phone and your emails. That should prove that you want nothing to do with either one of them!
2006-06-27 02:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by tieia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it you know what is true and if she wants to spend her life worrying about it let her don't waste yours trying to solve her problem its your problem not yours
2006-06-27 02:03:33 · answer #10 · answered by wtf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋