My Man says he loves me and he wouldn't be here if he didn't. But this female called our house for him and he has been talking to her while I am away from the house. He said one of his friends gave her the number but he still has been talking to her. I pulled my phone bill and her number is on there numerous of times. I called her and she said that they were just friends. When I ask him about it he stated that a female is not worth messing up his home and I'm insecure I should trust him bcuz he is not out there like that. I am going crazy wondering what the hell he is doing while I am away from him. but at the same time I don't want to mess up a good thing by jumping to conclusions what should I do?
2006-06-26 18:53:13 · 6 answers · asked by kiwikofii 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately you do have reason to be skeptical--I dont know to many of my guy friends who are hooked up and having women they JUST talk to--try having a guy call you & see what happens I bet his attitude will change bigtime--Sorry but I think something is going on just be cautious and keep your eyes open without him knowing--if he is going to cheat hes going to cheat its that simple just look for the signs and follow your heart & instincts but here is the tricky part you must maintain your pride and respect for yourself--be honest & tell him "if you are seeing someone or wanting to see someone tell me first so I can leave . Dont endanger me by having sex with someone else because its my life you are taking chances with not just yours remember other women can have AIDS and I dont want to take that chance" state "I love you but dont take that for granted"
2006-06-26 19:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by RacerXXX S 1 · 13⤊ 2⤋
FIRST OF ALL HE SHOULD NOT BE CONVERSATING WITH NO OTHER FEMALE IN THE HOUSE ON THE PHONE THAT THE TWO OF YOU SHARE THAT IS JUST PLAIN DISRESPECTFUL. HE HAS NO RIGHT TO JUST ALL OF SUDDEN START A FRIENDSHIP WITH ANOTHER FEMALE THE ONLY FEMALE FRIEND HE NEED IS YOU BECAUSE BRINGING ANOTHER FEMALE INTO YOUR RELATIONSHIP EVEN IF IT IS A FRIENDSHIP WILL ONLY COMPLICATE YOUR RELATIONSHIP. THIS FRIEND THAT GAVE HER YOUR NUMBER WOULD DEFINITELY GET SOME CHOICE WORDS BECAUSE THAT IS NOTHING THAT A REAL FRIEND DOES. YOU SHOULD TELL HIM THAT YOU ARE NOT INSECURE ABOUT THE OTHER FEMALE BUT YOU ARE FEELING DISRESPECTED BY HIM TALKING TO HER WHAT COULD HE POSSIBLY BE TALKING TO ANOTHER FEMALE ABOUT. ALL THIS "FRIENDSHIP" WILL LEAD TO IS HIM CHEATING SO JUST DO NT SIT AROUND AND WAIT FOR IT TO HAPPEN VOICE HOW YOU FEEL
2006-06-26 19:05:14 · answer #2 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he says that his priorities are such that if he ever has to choose between her and you, he chooses you. Maybe they've been friends since they were in elementary school - long before he ever had any idea you existed?
What bugs me about the situation is that he isn't being accountable with you about his relationships with other people. I think that even if he is telling you the truth, that should be happening and if you feel the same way, you might wish to talk to him in more detail about what your joint accountability arrangement should be (I mean, if you're going to expect it from him, you've got to expect it from yourself too...)
2006-06-26 19:02:55 · answer #3 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i feel u because i think my man is cheating to and i think u should listen to there conversation and if u still think that u need to call the Maury show and get a lie detector test for him
2006-06-26 19:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by shante t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well come home early and check on him, or hire a pi.
2006-06-26 19:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to call her when your with him...could be an interesting conversation.
2006-06-26 18:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋