Sure you should. You should be able to open up your heart to whatever for your loved one. Now if you have slept with the 7th Fleet or you got 21 babies out there it might be very telling. Before you proceed however, will your loved one be equally open and honest with you? Also, you might want to be able to explain whether or not certain things have changed in your life.
However before you negatively expose yourself to judgement from your lover. You might want to determine if this person is a "keeper" or not. Certainly don't tell every detail of some raunchy session that you may have been invovled in. Skip the parts that might offend or humiliate. Don't say..."Yeah my last lover was hung like a pony or her breast were much sexier than yours". You get my drift. Just go slow...and ask yourself. Why do I have the need to reveal this stuff anyhow? I just sense your anxiety!
2006-06-26 19:30:36
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answered by Anonymous
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I would not. There are some things you want to keep to yourself even if you get married to this person. Being in a relationship does not mean you have to tell someone EVERYTHING about your past. Never reveal what what can be used to hurt you later. Some memories should stay private.
2006-06-27 02:23:22
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answered by mamalovevin 2
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That depends on what you're hiding? If you have nothing to hide then you can tell them everything you want. But if there's something that you feel strongly about. I would wait to see how the trust issue plays with the new relationship. If they're understanding and caring enough then whatever you need to say about your past shouldn't be a harm, if he loves you enough then your past shouldn't have to matter. Hope that helps you out.
2006-06-27 02:15:00
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answered by deais74 3
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NEVER!!! What is past is past...over and done with. We all behave differently with different people. Most of the time, when the other person wants to know about your past relationships it is because they want to see what you will put up with and what they can get away with. Had a relationship like that years ago and it drove him crazy because he couldn't figure out how to get to me...he would always ask things like "did your husband ever hit you when you were together?" or "did he cheat on you?" Only when, out of frustration one day did I reveal what really happened in my marriage, did this man have his amonition...and boy did he use it...I almost had a break down...needless to say, I didn't break down completely and at a later date I saw him...big as a house...standing on a street corner in the rain trying to drum up business for his limo service because his calls had dwindled down to nothing...oh, and he ended up with a Polish cleaning lady who abused him 24-7...when he saw me, he begged to come back...by that time the universe blessed me with a good looking rich attorney who loved me and gave me anything I wanted, but most of all...he was good to me.
2006-06-27 02:37:54
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answered by Patricia Y 1
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NO, and NO, Your past is your past and if you give this new relationship all of that old baggage, its subject to take a trip also.
Create new and better present day memories with your new relationship or you might as well have stayed in the old one
2006-06-27 02:18:34
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answered by zorahudson@sbcglobal.net 3
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Don't be too open, but remember to be truthful, if that makes sense. If the new person wants to know, he/she will ask and just be honest. If they are strong, they will move past it.
2006-06-27 02:11:02
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answered by Rachel C 1
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yes.better he hears it from you straight up than someone else. relationshipsshould be based on love and trust not just love alone . if his feelings are true,he will stay with you whatever your past was.
2006-06-27 02:12:22
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answered by luvdoctor 3
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Yes I do..
not all at once, but start form like important then to least important, becuase you never know what will happen, or come up..
2006-06-27 02:10:23
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answered by ixpickxmyxnose 3
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most things yes. do you think i am going to tell my girl friend i ust to go on top of a hill nd flallow them with my crosshairs? (i never did that but wanted too)
2006-06-27 02:12:55
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answered by Anonymous
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Over time when the circumstances call for it, or if they ask. Don't just spit it out... EVER!
2006-06-27 02:10:42
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answered by looknohands 2
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