Family & Relationships - 25 June 2006

My brother keeps asking me to learn computer skills by having me read computer books with him. He basically wants me to get a computer-related job but it's not what I'd want to be my profession...

He sees me as a lazy guy who doesn't wanna do any work to make a living so he thinks that by getting me interested in a job he feels to be 'easy and high-paying' will make my problems go away.

I'm already well aware of the fact that you have to work to make income but I don't believe that working in something you have no interest in is a good idea, but every time I try to tell him that, he gets pissed off calling me a 'lazy fat fu(k who doesn't wanna work' and continues to think I just expect everything in life to come easy..

What's the best way for me to get my point across to him?

2006-06-25 16:39:12 · 7 answers · asked by MM 4 in Family

I am moving away to go to school after all these years.I am finally divorced and am confident enough to do so.My son refuses to go and he is 12.I tried to reason with him but nothing works.Help???

2006-06-25 16:38:41 · 16 answers · asked by Bella 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, I went to a church function last night and I have my people there that I hang out with, well, not all of them showed up, and there's this girl who's like 14, and her name is Aungel or somethin like that. I don't even know her. She showed up and her little sister started talking to me and bein all kool with me. I was like ok? whatever...? I hung out with my x boyfriend most of the night, and Aungel kept lookin at me funny and kept whisperin to her lil sis, but her lil sis still was kool with me. Well, before I left, Aungel started talking to me, actin all kool and junk...well, I go to church today and one of my friends tells me that Aungel was all tellin her that I'm a big slut!! When she has NO reason to say that!!! I have morals, I do NOT appreciate being called that! Problem is, I'm 18, this chick is like 14! I think she's jealous of me, and honestly she's not all that pretty like she brags! What should I do, I mean part of me says PUNCH HER LIGHTS OUT! even though it's not true.

2006-06-25 16:36:23 · 3 answers · asked by DUTCHIE 2 in Friends

Tell me anyway to get a guy to like me and ways that guys flirt. Any tips will work!! Is it bad if a guy won't tell you who he likes but could care less who I like? I just need TIPS!!

2006-06-25 16:35:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has got to be the laziest person i know. He is suppose to be at work by 9:00am everyday, but gets there between 10:00 and 10:30 everyday(his uncle owns the place) I get up everyday at 6:00am(thats when our 9 month old wakes up) get myself and our 2 kids ready for the day, me for work and my kids for daycare all the while my husband sleeps. I work from 8:00am until 5:00pm monday thru friday, come home cook, clean, and get the kids to bed. My husband goes and works on his uncles racecar and comes home and is like whats for supper, well its like 10:00pm by then and supper is put away, but i have to get it out and heat it up. Am i a bad wife for feeling neglected and for wanting him to help me out?

2006-06-25 16:33:32 · 15 answers · asked by pebbles68701 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and this girl I know.We talk to eachother everyday.But for some reason one day she called me a dork,geek,*****,
looser,a*s.Would someone who loves you call you that?I feel like I love her but Im not sure if I should be with her.My heart tells me no,but my brain tells me yes.I dont know.What should I do?
We tell eachother we love eachother to.

2006-06-25 16:33:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

for example, the comedian gabriel iglesias, some people ask if he is hawaiian, not just because of the shirts he wears. some photos he looks mestizo and some he looks like a puerto rican with african bloodlines.
it's been proven that many mexicans have african bloodlines.
some of the cities are named after famous african-mexican descendants.
the movie nacho libre was filmed entirely in oaxaca, one of the cities that is known for having black mexicans for many years. even the little boy in nacho libre, the chubby kid chancho, has black bloodlines. you can easily tell. you think nacho's partner is just spanish and indian mix?
not all latinos/mexicans deny this.

2006-06-25 16:31:58 · 21 answers · asked by gg 1 in Family

I try to be very nice to him. i cook for him and he wont eat it. i clean the house and wash his clothes. I iron his clothes and he gets something else to wear and he irons it and tells me i cant iron well. I let him have control of the tv and the sterio in the car. I take care of our son. he plays with him too. i do everything he asks and if i ask him for something then he just yells at me...i am very confused. i hurt so much. he wont ever talk to me when he wants to fool around then he just wants to talk to me for that minute then when he is done it is over. We have been married 5 years, this has been going on since the first few months of marriage. i have tried what i think is everything. can anyone tell me what to do?

2006-06-25 16:31:50 · 30 answers · asked by wayladuley 3 in Marriage & Divorce

a week and a half ago i went through some crap with a guy. i snuck out with him (he's 19 and i'm 16), i let him do things to me because i was scared what he would think if i said no. we didn't have sex, but he masturbated and then fingered me alot.
my mom found out a few days ago and she was really understanding and said that she would get me a pregnancy test and that she wouldn't be mad if i promised never to do something like this again. she has issues with depression, and today she refused to get out of bed. and when she did, i said that i still haven't gotten my period and that i really need to get a pregnancy test soon. she just said "great..."and laid back down and went to sleep.later on she went out and when i called her to ask if she could get me a pregnancy test, she hung up on me and when she came home she said that i got myself into this mess and i can get myself out and buy my own test. and she is really being a b**** and not talking 2 me and giving me the evil eye. help?

2006-06-25 16:30:22 · 11 answers · asked by lifeistough_period 1 in Friends

Soo how do u know if h eis flirting ?? And how Should i flirt back ???

2006-06-25 16:29:56 · 22 answers · asked by hayli m 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-25 16:29:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was wondering if diner and a movie is too weird for a first date. Also, I have seen a few topics talking about puting your arm around their shoulder and I was wondering if that is going too far on a first date if we are both shy.

Thanks in advance!

2006-06-25 16:29:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my x- boyfriends broke up 7 months ago, and were dating for 9 yrs and he left me for another. he's always cheated but this time he left me! So now he wants me back and I don't want him back. I realised I deserved better, and I have told him every lil pain that he had given me, and I learned from it. But now hes' showing up every where I go, and constantly wants to get info about me, and watches me from every corner from his eye. Why can't he juss leave me alone, like how i let him go on with that girl as much as it hurted me I left him alone while i was in pain where my life went downhill. Why is he wanting more from me, why does he want to talk to me now when theres nothing there from my part?

2006-06-25 16:29:31 · 2 answers · asked by lilnyasia 2 in Singles & Dating

Bedroom, and well, it has not been something that gets me going, not that I have tried it but I guess it just never crossed my mind. And what MY QUESTION IS..... Are you people into this stuff? What am I not getting when I picture this in my head? Seriously...... I don't get it.... Maybe it would never be my thing. Oh yah and do all of you men really like this?

2006-06-25 16:28:27 · 9 answers · asked by ~Amberlen Rio` ~ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

it is as if men, when you hear their conversations...they talk of
the vitals of women...their , their bust...etc...
dont they look on the other side of beauty...

2006-06-25 16:28:00 · 13 answers · asked by khatz 2 in Singles & Dating

i slept withmy cousins boyfriend and later found out i was pregnant

2006-06-25 16:27:35 · 3 answers · asked by clydetta_mckinney 1 in Friends

becuz i have a guy friend, that cheats on his girlfriend. and he tells me that, him and his girlfriend are having a great relationship going on. but me and my friend (the girlfriend) are wandering why he is lying and making excuses now! can you plz help me understand this.

2006-06-25 16:27:22 · 3 answers · asked by shar 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have two beautiful children, a girl age 6 and a boy age 3. We always talked about a third and now that I am ready my husband thinks we should stop. His points are all valid, the kids are getting older and more self sufficient. It is easier to take vacations now that they are getting older and obviously financial issues are always a concern. Regardless of these concerns I still really want a third. I do not know how we can come to a decision we both feel good about?

2006-06-25 16:27:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i've been single for a long time.... and it seems like i can never find a nice guy...all my friends have boyfriends and when we hangout i always feel like the 3rd wheel..... any ideas???

2006-06-25 16:26:58 · 25 answers · asked by Ashley H 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy online and we IMed for a few days and exchanged numbers. The first night we talked on the phone was for 6 hours. We talked for hours every night for a week and he told me he liked me. Now, everytime I see he is online, he doesn't IM me, or if I IM him, he says he's busy. I called him earlier and he said he was busy online and let me go. He never called back. What is your opinion?

2006-06-25 16:26:48 · 12 answers · asked by turtle33 2 in Singles & Dating

Someone please help me...
im really confused right now. Theres this girl that ive been talking to since the beginning of the school year, and i like her alot. I have never felt this way about any girl before, and i think shes the one. I even came up with enough courage to ask her for her phone number, which she gladly gave to me :)

My problem is that i dont know how she feels about me, and i think she might like my friend.

Lately, ive been goin to his myspace, and when id see a new comment from her, it like, breaks me inside.. i dont know why
and it seems like they comment back and forth alot, and when i liked her, it never seemed like they talked that much.

i dont know if hes doing it because he knows i like her, or if he likes her.

i just dont know what to do... it seems like whenever she leaves him a comment, i feel like she is slowly slipping away from me.

2006-06-25 16:26:21 · 6 answers · asked by southern_steven 2 in Friends

and why


i'm just curious .

2006-06-25 16:24:19 · 74 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

every one tells me to let my red hair grow out but honestly who likes redheads

2006-06-25 16:24:00 · 17 answers · asked by Ben Quick 2 in Singles & Dating

He keeps on sayin that his daddy got to use the truck but yet and still he keeps on going places and not coming to see me.I think that he is chaeting but i dont know!

2006-06-25 16:23:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What signs are there?

2006-06-25 16:23:46 · 15 answers · asked by Soraya 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-25 16:23:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is so in love with me....im scared that this might lead me into cheating......hellllllllllllllp!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-06-25 16:23:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Husband was given temp custody of his eight year old intell they go back to court. The bio mom refused to hand over the child. Bio mom is on drug's and we fear for the child. Would you take her to court for comtempt of court? I told him it would show her to be unwilling to co-parent with my husband. The courts dont like that. That it will work in his faver at the hearing. What do you think??

2006-06-25 16:22:13 · 8 answers · asked by Jeanette Y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok , I will try to talk to him . but then what next ??? Should i express my self ?? Or let him say things or what happens if im getting the wrong Vibe but i dont think im because he is a libra and im aquarius and my horoscopes says i should flirt !! But i dont really know how to !!! that well Help Me !!! Again !!!! And plus Libra + Aquarius is a match made in Heaven !!

2006-06-25 16:21:50 · 5 answers · asked by hayli m 1 in Singles & Dating

paternal gramma is showing favortism with her grandson and my daughter sees it and complains to me.what do i do?ive already had dicussions with my mother in law but its still going on and my daughter is getting older and sees it.

2006-06-25 16:21:45 · 7 answers · asked by k9396 1 in Family