i've been single for a long time.... and it seems like i can never find a nice guy...all my friends have boyfriends and when we hangout i always feel like the 3rd wheel..... any ideas???
2006-06-25 16:26:58 · 25 answers · asked by Ashley H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im only 17.... and i know this is dumb cuz i have a long life ahead but im tired of being single.....
my interests are..... Dance, im a student dance instructor at the local studio, i enjot music, photography and playing my guitar....im heading off to college in 2007
2006-06-25 16:50:58 · update #1
Be more open to people, go to a singles bar, wait if you can, as a last resort, find someone online?
2006-06-25 16:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by nippy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I am always the one who is left behind while my friends go to movies or theme parks with their bf or gf . I don't think I will be single forever. I just don't think it is my time yet . So I concentrate on other things in my life. But if you feel left out like I sometimes do try new things like maybe make new friends not that your friends aren't great , but maybe a change will make being single more worthwhile.
2006-06-25 16:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by peacekindnessfaith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can join new clubs and activities to meet new people. You can also try looking online. I have had great luck with online dating services. I went on lovehappens.com and I met many nice guys on there. Just make sure that you are careful and meet them in a public place and if possible take a friend along with you. Good Luck
2006-06-25 16:30:39 · answer #3 · answered by Megan W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Single friends should hang out with single friends. I'm having a hard time right now with that, since most of my guy friends are married. I go alone to bars and have gone alone to a concert or two, and sometimes it just isn't cool.
2006-06-25 16:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by SlothMachine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, duh...don't hang out with friends that have a boyfriend! Finding someone takes some effort, and you can't accomplish that hanging with other couples. Single for a long time??? Are you a 50 year old spinster? I don't think so. Get off your butt and get active.
2006-06-25 16:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give up, just don't dwell on not having a guy. Thing will fall into place. If you are unhappy being the 3rd wheel, pick up guys. Who knows maybe one of the frogs will work out.
2006-06-25 16:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by bluechick 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have been single so long, you must high too high of standards. Quit thinking you are better than everyone else and start looking at someone on the insode, instead of just caring how good someone looks.
2006-06-25 16:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What I would do if I was you is date so more cause sooner or later the right man will come along and then you will get married and live happy ever after
2006-06-25 16:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by sweetheart1000000000000000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the couple friends... they will only make you feel more single... hang out with singles.....they want to meet people too..and they want to do things that promote meeting people. If you don't have single friends... make some...you might even meet that special person!
2006-06-25 16:44:22 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard now a days. do you have speed dating in your area? ive heard thats alot of fun. you have to be careful if you see anyone on line thats for sure. i am sure you heard the old ones like the grocery store lol church have friends introduce you to there friends. good luck i sure wouldnt wanna be single in todays society!
2006-06-25 16:32:14 · answer #10 · answered by lnay69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋