Me and this girl I know.We talk to eachother everyday.But for some reason one day she called me a dork,geek,*****,
looser,a*s.Would someone who loves you call you that?I feel like I love her but Im not sure if I should be with her.My heart tells me no,but my brain tells me yes.I dont know.What should I do?
We tell eachother we love eachother to.
2006-06-25 16:33:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She doesn't love you.
2006-07-07 07:59:14 · answer #1 · answered by Padme 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would simply ask her if she's serious or if she's just teasing. I call my wife a fata$$ all the time. It's a joke that actually she started.. She's only 5' and 95 lbs. and we call each other names all the time. It's fun! And people look at us weird hehe. I can just imagine them saying things like.. omgosh she stays with him when he calls her fat? she probably has a hard time finding clothes she's so skinny! What a jerk he is. I guess we just like getting people reaction.
Acutally, she comes from a culture where they would go to the mall and literally point at people, make fun of them and giggle and laugh. First time she came here I had to smack her hand when she did that and explain that it was rude LOL. So now she learn how to talk behind people's back, stab people in the back and become an American woman!
2006-07-07 16:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by game buddee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how old you are:
For students & teens & that group:
It could just be an accident where in she was pointing to a guy behind you and you thought it was you. Or it could also be one of those freaky popularity situations. Haven't you watched High School Musical? Where in the guy just got forced into saying those things.
For older people with jobs and stuff:
She might really really want to be with you but she knows she cant due to some weird reason. By saying those things she tries to force herself to believe she doesnt like you but deep inside she really does.
2006-07-09 08:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by isma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would listen to my heart! Your heart is what will truly be broken if things do not work out for the two of you. I can understand that people can become irritated with one another at times, but that does not give them any reasons to condemn, or put someone down. Especially if they claim to love you!
Good Luck!
2006-07-09 20:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever ask her why she called you those names???
Did she ask you to forgive her?
If she didn't apologize , then she'll keep doing this again and again and it will become a habit , sought of a form of mental abuse.
If your heart is telling you stay away from her, she is not good for you, then follow your heart! Sometimes that's the best way to go!!!
2006-06-25 23:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by MissShorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes willing to hurt you thi sway, she is not your friend. Scrape her off and find people who will respect your feelings. She isnt one of them. This is a girl whos going to be alone for the long long time.
2006-07-05 09:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well wen she did dat maybe she was playing around. If u love her and she loves u then y not ask her out, that may be y she called u those names, bcuz she loves u.
2006-07-09 23:09:44 · answer #7 · answered by Chickitita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 Corinthians 6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
2006-07-09 22:36:57 · answer #8 · answered by Lee G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's frustrated that you haven't asked her out yet so to protect herself from her insecurities she blames it on you and calles you gay?
Because what guy wouldn't want her lol.....j/k
hope my ramble was insightful
2006-07-09 22:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, let me see...you like her she likes you, she basically cursed you out and you still want to be with her...unless she says she was pmsing, don't go back to her beacuse that is just plain mean and u don't want a girl like that and you're heart tells you no.
2006-06-25 23:48:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she calls u that , nd if she doesnt stop call her NAMES 2 ... ND I SUGGEST U FOLLOW UR HEART INSTEAD OF UR BRAIN , CUZ UR HEART KNOWS WATS BEST FOR U WHEN ITS ABOUT LOVE
2006-07-09 12:44:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋