Ok, here goes, got married at 23 to 34 year old girl from Brazil. She had 7 yr old son, who lived in Brazil at time. Married after one year of dating. Didn't get to know her well, but learned to speak Portuguese very well, and we got along pretty well first few years. We had a child together, he is 7 now, and he is adorable. Her son came to live with us after our son was born, and it was all downhill from there. 10 years later she wants to separate, and she has always refused to go with me to marriage counseling. She's been diagnosed with depression, but refuses to deal with that too. Now I'm depressed from putting up with her for so long, going back to my old, bad habits. Long story... but I've worked my butt off to go back to college, get a 4 yr degree, and bought house together. She took her ring off years ago, and we haven't slept in same room for over a year..... Any hope left. We avoid each other, and it sux....
2006-06-24
21:55:41
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FearDragons
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Marriage & Divorce