I was wondering if first time sex hurts........I like this guy, and he turns me on easily. But he took his shirt of to me a few weeks ago, and i felt all hot and awkward and felt my face turn bright right. I don't know if i could let him. I am 24 and never did sex before. Does it hurt, and what could we do to make it not hurt?. He has did it many times before....... so i feel left out. Thanks
2006-06-24 22:00:17 · 21 answers · asked by Ukgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you went bright red because you're shy try making sure the light is off but better still light a couple of candles so he can't tell, but just relax and be yourself. It doesn't hurt and trust me your bf will consider himself very lucky to be the first and enjoy it. Once you've done it you'll wonder what all the worrying was about and you'll soon be dragging him back to bed!!!!
2006-06-24 22:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by rockin mermaid 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's best if you are confident and are relaxed. The more comfortable you are with it, the less it'll hurt. But your first time should really mean something so don't worry about your age, make sure this is the guy you want to do this with. And yeah it's really hard to not want to when you're getting this hot. There is a chance of blood...trust me. >_> But that should only be temporary...it gets better too.
2006-06-25 05:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by pizzagirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's different for every female. Some hurt a lot and some don't, it's just a chance you have to take.
I waited until I was 21. I found it extremely painful & bled for a couple of days. BUT, I guarantee you, once that passes it's more than worth it and you will never think about that pain again...unless you answer a question like this.
2006-06-25 13:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by lover of the ocean waves 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The first time usualy hurts a little, It dosnt last for long though (the pain i mean) and to make it hurt less go very slowly, enjoy yourself, make sure your absoutely 100 percent ready, and make sure that your body is ready youll know when it is
2006-06-25 05:07:05 · answer #4 · answered by faithfulwench 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you're mentally and physically ready for this big step. Talk about how you feel with the guy. If he really likes yu he'll be considerate. Relax and do't expect miracles...and I think it's great that you're 24 and have waited.
2006-06-25 05:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by galaxygirl_00_uk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it does hurt you have a thin layer of tissue over your vaginal area and that causes the slight pain it dont last long sometimes you cant tell especially if you are into him and not worry about the small pain you may feel its nature and a wonderful feeling make sure he is the right guy and let him know please be gental if you dont feel it dont do it the right one will come along and will be swept off youre feet the right way not lusting
2006-06-25 05:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by Judy D 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it hurts a bit... but in a good way... you feel closer to that person than you ever have before. Just relax and don't worry about it, do what feels right!
2006-06-25 09:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it does hurt the first time but only for a few minutes. it doesn`t hurt that much either unless you were a complete wimp. don`t be scared to have sex. it`s only natural.
2006-06-25 05:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty of for play so you are ready will ease 1st time pain once you get used to it you will find it very nice with no pain at all.
2006-06-25 05:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by andy f 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might hurt but if he is gentle you won't even notice it. Just be safe and be sure you trust the guy.
2006-06-25 05:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by Shy Williams 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋