The she devil first committed adultery towards my girlfriend's husband and when he did not continue the relationship. She devil committed adultery towards my husband. Both of us have this HATRED feeling towards the she devil. Everyday we discuss our feelings of HATRED & how to overcome or get even? We have no answer. The HATRED remains.
2006-06-24 21:55:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stop mucking around and dancing round the edges...we all know what you're talking about.
A good professional "employee" starts at around US $10K and anywhere up to about US $50K depending on your "subject".
Now, it's always important to pay "dead presidents" which are UNTRACEABLE...whaddaya think the "johnnie rockets" will say when they see a "sizeable" "order to go" a week before her "termination"? They won't say anything! They'll take you straight downtown for "hamburgers"!
It's important to not mention this to anyone. The slightest slip could unleash the cold fury of justice upon you.
If anyone finds out you plan to hire a "hitman" to "kill" "your husband's mistress" you could be in deep "sh*t!!!!"...........whoops, sorry...I guess I've let the cat out of the bag.
Just kidding...
2006-06-24 22:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you both are small minded, angry people, and cant see past your noses at the reality. Which is...
Remember it takes two , 2, T- W-O to commit adultery. Both your partner and your friends partner were LOOKING to have an affair and she was available, so they had their fun, if anything you both should get a grip and be mad at your partners, not her !!!
Besides, if it was not her, it probably would have been someone else, actually if you check, both your partners might have already been having affairs in the past, that is why they so easily went for her without much thought. Did you ever think of that?
I am a guy, believe me, I have been around the block a few times, you two are as they say, 'barking up the wrong tree'!!!
2006-06-25 05:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the two of you should have a good talk with your adulterous husbands.
Blaming it all on the woman doesn't sound fair to me. Your husbands had a choice in this too. And they chose to commit adultery as much as the woman you hate.
There is no law against adultery. People are free to have sex with whoever they want. And there is nothing you can do about the woman you hate. But you can do something about your adulterous husbands who have promised to be faithful to you. Make sure that they keep their marriage vows from now on. And if they don't, then get divorced and make them pay.
The lady you hate didn't promise anything to anyone. But your husbands did make solemn promises to you and your girlfriend. And I'd say that they are more to blame in all of this, than the woman you hate.
2006-06-25 05:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, of all, you need to remove this hatred that you,two, are allowing to fester.It is unfortunate and disgusting, true enough, however, you and your friend are sitting around making matters worse. Accepting what you say is true, that this "she-devil" slept with your husbands, becoming filled with hatred and plotting revenge is allowing her to screw you, as well. Oh, by the way, you are directing unnecessary, idiotic anger towards this woman, when it is your husbands that are married to you. What kind of sense does that make? Furthermore, you, two, need to think long and hard, in regards to doing something to that woman because you will be jeopardizing your safety and your freedom!!!
2006-06-25 05:12:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have overcome the hatred for my ex's wife for committing adultery with him before our divorce was finalized because the hatred hurt me not her. I like her now and she treats me nicely so it works both ways now. You just have to have love and forgiveness in your heart. This is hard and may take some time so don't beat yourself up for not being able to do it right away. Pray for your heart to be softened and getting even is NOT an option if you want to feel peace in your heart.
2006-06-25 05:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by Happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. the thing is you probably wont start hating her so easily.. i mean who can blame u? first it was her husband then hers! If i were u, me and my girlfriend would beat up she devil and our husbands! i mean the husbans participated willingly ok.. think about it.. they got into bed with her all horny and hungry. She definitely didnt rape them And now to make themselves look like victims they're probably blaming her? sheesh.. divorce ur husbands, throw some horrible garbage filled with dog poo and **** in front of she devil's house and put up posters which warn wives of the SHE DEVIL! the move outta town and get new husbands and new lives! this just sounds so soap opera type..she devil reminds me of brooke logan from "the bold and the beautiful", worst show on the planet! hey..mail me exactly what happen..will seriously try to help u out..:) Need to know the entire story first! all the best..
2006-06-25 05:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by princess h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, your husbands weren't exactly innocent by standers in this. You can't blame her without of course laying some blame in the directions of the husbands. Your husbands could have said NO.
You have some serious issues here and you need either therapy or to clear the air on the Jerry Spinger Show.
2006-06-25 05:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anne M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your hatred should not only be directed to the "she Devil" but towards your husbands, they are the ones who should have said no. And hatred festers in your soul.
2006-06-25 04:59:39 · answer #8 · answered by ♠Mike♠ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you are looking at the wrong person. Why not trust your husbands in the first place? If they cheat then marriage counceling is in order. If the marriage is strong enough you won't have to worry about the she devil.
2006-06-25 05:06:50 · answer #9 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut all ties with this woman. Then find something to do with your girlfriend that does not involve trash-talking about this she-devil, something that's fun and has nothing to do with your husbands or her.
And yes, therapy would also be a good thing.
2006-06-25 05:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by triviatm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋