You meet someone who you desire with utmost fantasy.
She reciproctes.
You build in your mind the image of the perfect woman, meeing of minds, shared values, physical compatibility, a promise of fulfilling orgsmic, throbbing, exquisite sex.
Do you go ahead and meet, thereby spoiling it all in the unforgiving glare of reallity and possible disaster or do you merly wallow in the fantasy, building day by day without consumation?
2006-06-24 21:42:18 · 9 answers · asked by Paul R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What wonderful feelings to have! You have to decide what it is you really want...all approaches towards a relationship or intimacy are a gamble to some extent initially...test the waters with this person...and remember...a relationship is what you make it...I wish you happiness and fulfillment!
2006-06-24 21:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by amelia_madeline 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been in this situation it had been building for years and i went for it, and at the drunken time it was better than fantasy in some ways but when you do something stupid or have your hair in your face the reality kicks in. It didn't go anywhere between us. Now sometimes I have cringes where I think what were you doing! You gave him full on boyfriend sex not just one off sex!?! if that makes any sense!
But on the other hand the fantasy's are even better now.
2006-06-25 07:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by As You Like It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my mind yes! as long as both parties know the boundaries from the start and only move on if and when the need arises. if you don't do the meeting the fantasy will always be just that, and would life be worth it if all we did was NOT to fulfil our fantasies and desires
2006-06-25 05:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by BIG AL13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are the fantasy won't live up to reality. Maybe it will (score!). However, of you don't act on it and continue to let the fantasy build you will compare every woman you meet to this fantastic creature you have created in your head that doesn't exist, and she will always be 'the one who got away'. So- do it, man! Its not fair on the other girls not to.
2006-06-25 04:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by AussieRockchic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are single and are not under obligation to another, go for it. So what if it does not work out?
Ok, the love of my life (one of the loves of my life that year) and I worked together. I fell in love with him. He was handsome and I was, was, beautiful. We dated a few times and people would look at us and stare because we were just made in beauty for one another. However, we quit dating shortly after beginning, I wanted to be a virgin when I married and he didn't want to, In essence, I loved and lost and still treasure our love and the memories of the reactions of others who saw us together. It has been over thirty years and I still glow when thinking. Go for it. The memories will be cherished.
2006-06-25 05:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose some could live only in a fantasy world, but I myself cannot. Take a chance, maybe it will be okay. Unless, of course, you want only to live in fantasy!
2006-06-25 04:47:53 · answer #6 · answered by isemellia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy is you rehearsing what you want to do, so get on with it!
2006-06-25 07:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ade Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your fantasy could turn out to be your reality...worth the risk?
2006-06-25 04:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just meet up..what have you really got to lose?
2006-06-25 04:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by willows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋