i met her in alabama on tour (when i was singing) and she "fell in love with my voice" and i fell in love with her eyes....i live in NC and my mother lives about 40 min from her. i think about her alot, and dont really have anything going for me here. should i move with my mom (im 23) and start work and start somethign with this girl? i talk to her on the phone alot and always want to see her. she feels the same way about me, but im not sure this is the best desicion. i have never "lived" with my mom before, and my mom would love for me to do so. sooooooo yeah, this is like my only serious question i think....lol
2006-06-24 21:39:53 · 9 answers · asked by playaninstrument 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you should
2006-06-25 11:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by LiTlE mIsSy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you shared this idea with the girl?
if she is really into the idea and you are not uncomfortable being a roommate with your mom, then i say go for it. it will be a gamble and it may take a while to get established wherever you go, but if the girl likes the idea then it would most likely not be an unhealthy change for your (dare i say) relationship.
if you haven't shared the idea with her, then that would probably be a great place to start. maybe don't say that you are definitely moving closer to her or anything, but say that there is an opportunity for you to move closer. sometime the sales pitch can make or break the whole thing.
2006-06-25 04:49:01 · answer #2 · answered by otis_hobson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, look for job oppurtunities out there, and then if you decide to move there, stay with your mom for maybe a month, and then get a place of your own. You don't want to live with her, but living near her wouldn't be so bad. Besides, if things don't work out with this girl, then at least you aren't there just for her.
2006-06-25 04:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by mizbehavingirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you too old to live with mom? Why can't she come and see you?? Why are you thinking of making major changes for someone you haven't even spent any time with? Oh yeah, I'm supposed to answer, not ask, right???? OK. I don't know.
2006-06-25 04:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance! If it doesn't work out then just chalk it up as a learning milestone :-)
2006-06-25 04:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by ayleyha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take decision keeping your focus on career...u will meet her with more love and affection and love once u r wel setteled in ur profession...take care.
2006-06-25 04:44:09 · answer #6 · answered by rahulchoosy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your choice, do what makes u happy! talk about it to your mom and the girl, and decide from there
2006-06-25 04:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by thundakat312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing to lose....if it does workout.......good ....if not....u tried. Nothing to regret
2006-06-25 04:46:09 · answer #8 · answered by Ynot78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
2006-06-25 04:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋