It was either me or cps so how can I be blamed when I am put to only supervise the parents and the parent not my child ,does wrong in my home and we argue and it left and a few days later I found a broke syringe and it's lid of ready dope and told my child it wasn't ever allowed back in my home so my child said 'well you know I will just follow it (It, being the other person) and my child did so I am raising my grandbaby till cps gives my grown child it's baby back it's been about 4-mths. and the baby is 1yr now and I am so attatched but you can bet when the parents get the baby back them nor the cps will give one rats *** how I feel? How can people not care enough to take care of their own, I never told my child to leave it did it on it's own and chose to be with it instead of the children, three to be exact, how do I let go after so long?
2006-06-24 21:41:57 · 4 answers · asked by BRENDA K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My question is simple , (How do I let my grandbabies go back to their parents after I have had them so long and I don't trust the dad, he is a drug attic, does that make better sense now reread my original ? read between the lines.Thanks for everyones help. B.K.
2006-06-25 23:03:06 · update #1
It's all depends on what State you live in. In Michigan there is a Grandparent act. But once CPS steps in then the court is called. Before the kids be returned to the parents they would have to take curtain steps. Like, getting in a rehap for drugs, alcohol, and so on. Then a life scan. You can stop help or becoming a handicap to you kids and Call the cops and start a paper trail. Not doing any is putting a nail on your grandkid coffin. You are their Voice. Use it. That is your cross to bare
2006-06-24 22:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 5⤋
Your question is not clear enough to understand. Could you look at your question and prof-read it? Hopefully you will see that you need to re-write your question.
Some believe that the law works to protect the small children. If you would research, you would learn that the law cannot protect every child. Yes, In Michigan we have laws. The problem is that there are so many children who are abused and neglected that they cannot be kept from their parents.
There are not enough foster parents to keep all of the abused and neglected children nor are there enough funds to pay for the foster care. Research will tell you that in most states, if not all, the same problem exists. Children have died because of being returned to birth parents. If there is a way to legally adopt, do so. Keep in touch with social worker and if you can keep this child without government assistance, that will be a great asset for you.
2006-06-24 22:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your english is horrible.
2006-06-24 21:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by sunflowers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your kids
2006-06-24 21:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋