Family & Relationships - 22 June 2006

My spouse of 8 years has a bi polar disorder. Maybe it is just me or I am getting tired of being the one on the down list... I get put down, yelled at, and it gets worse. I have been punched a few times and that has stopped but the verbal garbage that comes out of his mouth hurts. I know the thing to do is leave him, but on the otherhand I love my house, I don't want to start over again. On the otherside of my brain I want to get the hell out of here and never come back. I don't know why I cannot leave. I find myself getting more and more depressed. I hear him yelling at me in my sleep, I hear him when he isn't there. What should I do, I do get counseling but I can't seem to take that "giant" step off the porch. I think I love him but he is unable to show the love back. Part of the disorder, any thoughts??? Or is this not making sense?

2006-06-22 14:34:18 · 12 answers · asked by stellaM 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Yeah so i know you guys are tired of hearing me talk about my boyfriend but um..anyhow so yeah earlier we talked today and he told me that he would call me awhile later...that was like around five. So im sitting here and its passed 9, waiting for him to call. I decided not to call because i dont want to be a pain and i dont know if he just needs his space right now and hes been complaining about his minutes so I decided to let him just do the calling for now. Anyhow so then he calls me just now, from another number and he says "hey did you try to call"??....I said no. And he said "Oh....well I left my phone at home I was playing cards at the neighbors house"....I mean really, how do u forget your phone. Apart of this shows that he cares because he called but apart of this tells me he probably left his phone purposely so he wouldnt have to worry about picking up if I called....why cant guys be more honest...so what do you guys think. I always feel like my heart is being stepped on.

2006-06-22 14:34:02 · 10 answers · asked by Priss18 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-22 14:33:45 · 46 answers · asked by Hottie417 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-22 14:33:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We plan to do this in May 2007.

2006-06-22 14:33:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hi, I need help with one thing. A guy wrote me an e-mail telling me that although he'll be on a two-week business trip and won't be able to get back to me soon, but he'll remember me and my name. He also told me that he'll get back to me as soon as he returns home. In two of his messages he said that he found me lovable. I'd like to know if there's any implication in his messages when he said that he'll remember me and my name and that he found me lovable. Thanks a lot for your sincere help. Please I only need honest and sincere answers, those who try to hurt my feelings are kindly asked to step aside.

2006-06-22 14:31:29 · 3 answers · asked by danielle s 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 28 and only like older and/or baldness in men. I'm attractive. It's just something about a confident older man who doesn't give a hoot he isn't 100% eye candy. In fact, I think alot of women these days agree with me. My hubbies 38, balding and he still know s he's sexier than ever!

2006-06-22 14:31:25 · 8 answers · asked by Mr.Seeexxxxxy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-22 14:30:59 · 58 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-22 14:30:42 · 13 answers · asked by Ejay 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-22 14:28:55 · 28 answers · asked by Finnigan 1 in Family

Ok... for the longest time ive been sad, angry, and just depressed. I know its normal for most teens to go through, but its just an all the time thing for me. Like, yea, i used to cut, smoke, and do alot of stupid stuff, and im still depressed. I never wanna go outside, and my mom thinx im wierd. I mean i dnt TRY to be depressed, nor do i try to be happy. Im just who i am, and im confused. HELP!

2006-06-22 14:28:03 · 21 answers · asked by GC_RiotGrl_879 3 in Friends

I need any type of info Steps- Do's and Don'ts

2006-06-22 14:27:36 · 3 answers · asked by rolivas 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A. Your perfect man/woman who turns out didn't love you

B. The man/woman you loved but was far from what you would normally consider ideal

2006-06-22 14:25:27 · 31 answers · asked by King H 6 in Singles & Dating

My friend does not have a gift registry. Are there specific wedding gift-giving traditions in the Indian culture that I should be aware of? If anything I can give money or a gift certificate, I know, but I'd like something more personal. thanks!

2006-06-22 14:25:20 · 11 answers · asked by DJ K-Mil 2 in Weddings

2006-06-22 14:25:13 · 16 answers · asked by tav212006 1 in Singles & Dating

I didn't really know what to put this question under but I'm really desperate. Does anyone who lives in Eugene, OR know a John D. Svoboda? I haven't seen my father since I was 13 and now i'm 22 now. I got some information that pointed me towards Eugene. If anyone knows him or knows how to contact him please help me. Thank you.

2006-06-22 14:25:05 · 4 answers · asked by kaiyabriefs 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-22 14:23:07 · 14 answers · asked by WooYa 3 in Singles & Dating

i live in texas and my family lives in phoenix az....my grandmother
is soon to pass.....almost 90.....and i am getting phone calls from
all who dont know how to handle this...large family not real familiar
with God....any words that i can comfort them over the phone would greatly be appreciated...lost for comforting words in texas
Thanks

2006-06-22 14:20:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

NJ, Morris County Area. Looking for a Mom (who was married to a Bitondo) and has a son and a daughter. (possibly mid/late 40s early 50s) This Mom gave up a son at birth (siblings may not know) in 1962 (October) to a family named Boisvert, from Dover, (Morristown Memorial Hospital) NJ. This Mom has a best friend named Joan. (Bitondo, I think)
I spoke to Joan and she would not relay my message to the Mom or siblings I am looking for, stating that he Mom was ill and she did not need to be bothered by this.
HELP before it is too late!
We have original adoption papers and not much else.
I found the Joan lady by opening the local phone book and calling every Bitondo in the book!

2006-06-22 14:20:26 · 2 answers · asked by crystlizm 4 in Weddings

I'm at a total loss of ideas. What should I ask them? What should I talk about?

They're Japanese and can't understand English too well. She'll be translating...at least I hope so, otherwise it'll be real interesting...

2006-06-22 14:19:54 · 15 answers · asked by nowbelievesindreams 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Dont any of you watch the news? for god sakes if yahoo wont split up age groops to protect these kids how do we get the point across to them not to say" ummmm.im like 13..... any hotties out there wanna like chat? I realize half of them ar probably full of it but what about the poor S.O.B's that are gonna get contacted?can we help them?

2006-06-22 14:19:50 · 21 answers · asked by error file not found 404 2 in Family

2006-06-22 14:19:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just wish I could find a woman who'll wear them (and of course
other things) for me. Any takers?

2006-06-22 14:18:16 · 4 answers · asked by thenuliberationtheatre_40 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm looking for my cousin his mom is realy sick, his name is vern castillo. mother's name timothay castillo

2006-06-22 14:17:50 · 4 answers · asked by alpha a 1 in Friends

2006-06-22 14:15:43 · 16 answers · asked by rebelde1856 1 in Singles & Dating

okay....boys...do guys like virgins or nonvirgins? Why do some guys like virgins?how do they feel about doing virgins? and is there any discomfront mentally or physically form having sex with a virgin?How does it make guys feel knowing they were the first?

2006-06-22 14:15:36 · 19 answers · asked by scarletcutiecajunqueen 2 in Singles & Dating

I am pregnant and even though I be feeling frisky I just be feeling too pregnant to have sex. Backaches swollen feet that is not good when you're trying to be sexy. What do I do?

2006-06-22 14:14:46 · 5 answers · asked by whos_tat_grl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-22 14:13:41 · 13 answers · asked by giggles779804 1 in Friends

Alright, I'm 20 and single, just wanting to get some opinions. What's the 1st impression you get by my looks? Here's my photo http://us.a1c.yahoofs.com/personals/43eed79dzd9137ec8/personals-1139725440-546205/__sr_/2d7bre2.jpg?psYQ0mEByAneKayw

Would you approach me or would you wait for me to make the move?

Thanks in advance :)

2006-06-22 14:13:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is not from a kid. I'm 43 years old and been married 3 times. Now I think I'm in love with 2 men. Help!

2006-06-22 14:13:23 · 9 answers · asked by Nine Nine 1 in Singles & Dating