I Wish I just understood you men better so I could no my every move. Would he purposely leave his phone?

Question

Yeah so i know you guys are tired of hearing me talk about my boyfriend but um..anyhow so yeah earlier we talked today and he told me that he would call me awhile later...that was like around five. So im sitting here and its passed 9, waiting for him to call. I decided not to call because i dont want to be a pain and i dont know if he just needs his space right now and hes been complaining about his minutes so I decided to let him just do the calling for now. Anyhow so then he calls me just now, from another number and he says "hey did you try to call"??....I said no. And he said "Oh....well I left my phone at home I was playing cards at the neighbors house"....I mean really, how do u forget your phone. Apart of this shows that he cares because he called but apart of this tells me he probably left his phone purposely so he wouldnt have to worry about picking up if I called....why cant guys be more honest...so what do you guys think. I always feel like my heart is being stepped on.

no matter how hard I try. I understand a man needs his space, so why cant he just say that..i mean..or do some guys just like it when a girl freaks out, or am i just constantly being tested...

AND IM SORRY..I MEANT TO SAY KNOW..not no..lol. Im tired.

Answer 1

Does it strike you as odd that he doesn't call all day and then shortly after you call him this evening then he calls? My guess would be that he DID have his phone, could see it was you calling, is somewhere doing something he would rather be doing than talking to you and so he used someone else's phone to call you and make up a story about not having his phone with him.

Answer 2

oh id like to think thats a two way street lol I dont see what ur worried about I mean he did call .. that should mean something ..cuz he didnt have to call from his friends he coulda just explained later when he got home .. you worry to much if your feeling that way maybe (you) feel you are crowding his space maybe you should back off a lil on the calls and let him call you atleast that way you will know its him wanting to talk to you LOL ..maybe he did leave it so he can have some chill time with the homies maybe he dont want to tell u nething cuz he cares about your feelings ? or maybe ur just paranoid and the poor dude did leave his phone ..you read to much into things ..enjoy each other sometimes its more exciting when you do have a lil more time away from each other it gets kinda boring when u always know where each others at ? The important thing is you guys make time for each other too .. I think you guys are fine you should just go with the flow dont worry so much take things day by day be happy ..you shouldnt base your life around him anyway dont set there waiting for his call go do something with your friends give each other space , you will feel alot better

Answer 3

What a bunch of crap, He's been gone most of the day. Where the hell doe's he put his cell phone at the end of the day ? Someplace he remembers it in the morning ! that would be someplace close to the rest of the stuff he spills from his pockets after he comes home.
And you sound like you have been home all day. right ? And you didn't see it laying around anywhere in sight.
Get on your landline and call his cell # if it rings you'll find it someplace, in something buried pretty deep i'm sure.... Now if it does'nt ring, that means he shut it off.... and i dont think if fell into the bottom of the sock drawer by itself. Do You.? come on sweethart . Get a clue.!

Answer 4

Look. If he's not doing the things you like then find someone who does. You do nothing for yourself by trying to change the guy. Maybe you need to hang out with your friends a little more often and that way you wont be so interested in what he is doing and how long its been since he called. I think although guys say they hate jealous girls, I find they purposely do things to provoke that emotion from girls. Once they see it in you they will continue to prey on you like a vulture. The only thing boys and men respond to is confidence and making them work like dogs for what you give them. They are very quick to take your niceness for granted. Go out with your friends, be confident and dont care about him calling. Its all about confidence.

Answer 5

Maybe he was playing cards at the friends house and forgot his phone. It sounds pretty simple to me. By the way, I am a female. You are obviously talking about a younger guy, they can sometimes not be the sharpest tools in the shed, but my experience is that if they want to ditch you , they will. They can be brutally honest. If you are falsely accusing him, he'll dump you without regrets. Guys have to have bragging space. haha

Answer 6

If it happens more than once he is playing games with u to make u miss him and want him more. I met a girl that did that to me.. finally she never even called when she said she would cuz i guess i bugged her too much... either way, just try and forget about it unless it happens all the time.

Answer 7

if it makes you feel any better, my guy left me a message that he was going to go to a strip club, and then his phone went straight to voicemail all night. He actually went to a movie and forgot to turn it back on.

maybe your guy is trying to see how attached you are. I mean, he called to see if you had called? At least he is checking. If he needs "space" don't call him, and I am sure he will be calling you.

Answer 8

hi.next time he says hes going to call and he doesn't.you need to stop sitting by the phone and go out with your friends for a bit.don't be to available.let him chase you.keep him on his toes.

Answer 9

just find a way or someone with whom you will be happy the way you want

Answer 10

Forget about him. He is not for you.