2006-06-22 14:30:42 · 13 answers · asked by Ejay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can't MAKE anyone like you... the only thing you can do is be you.... be yourself. People have to like you for who you are and what you stand for. Being somebody/something you're not will prove to be difficult because, at some point, you're real self.. your real personality will show through.
Trust me, I learned a long time ago that being somebody you're not will only get you into trouble. I found out, after making too many mistakes with girls, that girls, eventually, liked me for the person I am and not for the person I thought I had to be.
So, be yourself. Even if it takes a month.. 6 months.. or a year.. in the end, it will be worth it. There is somebody out there for everybody but you have to be you... and nobody else.
I hope it works out!
2006-06-22 14:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Dont push yourself to do anything that you dont want to do...and most importantly, dont change yourself for some silly girl. Fact of the matter is that love is a very fragile an fickle thing. True love is honest, sincere and exhilirating!!! If you find yourself changinf to win someone elses "love", then you may just be doing it for attention and/or for the wrong reasons. If she doesnt like you for who you are, move on!!! She isnt meant for you, there is someone else out there!!
2006-06-22 22:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by jedimasterc2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you can't make someone like you. And if you have to think of ways in the first place, then that person isn't for you. When the right person does come along, you'll both know. Just be yourself no matter what others think and all will work out.
2006-06-22 21:52:59 · answer #3 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. They always look only at superficial lies and clothes and cars and what job somebody has or what names they drop. Women rarely if ever even notice anything real about a guy they are considering. A crazy guy went to Europe and said he was a concert pianist and wandered around on beaches, He did ok with the women there. Proof of what I'm saying.
2006-06-22 21:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make a girl like you. Matters of the heart can never be forced. Just be yourself and if they like you they like you if they don't they don't. Can't do a thing about it.
2006-06-22 21:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by myjamsandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have to make anyone like you for who you are if they don't then its their loss just take your time and the right one who has the qualities you have will come when you at least expect it.
2006-06-22 21:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by Neek-Neek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting rich is the first key.Then you must buy her expensive things. Then act she is your queen. This strategy never fails.
2006-06-22 21:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by Legend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop pretending to be someone else...be honest with your own feeling....dont be afraid to express them...people tend to prefer dealing with someone with no hidden agenda....what you see is what you get...
2006-06-22 21:43:13 · answer #8 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are is part of who you are, it defines your identity!!
2006-06-22 21:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by SuzzyLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good answer! myjamsandwich!!
You are absolutely right!!
2006-06-22 21:33:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋