Family & Relationships - 5 June 2006

We now have 4 dogs. Four. I didn't ask for any of them, but when she brought in one, I eventually adjusted and loved this animal. She assured me that she didn't want any others. Then she became obsessed with finding another one, and without asking me, brought home another dog. I adjusted and enjoyed both of them. She assured me that she wouldn't bring home anymore. Then she became obsessed with finding another dog, and without asking me, brought home another dog. I haven't even had a chance to adjust to three dogs (INSIDE dogs, no less) and, although she has assured me that there was NO way she'd get another one...she has become obsessed with another dog and now has just surprised me with another puppy. Along with the 2 kids, this is so much for me to take. This isn't the only thing issue we've had in our marriage, but I'm at the point now where I feel she is so self-centered that she is only concerned with her own immediate self-gratification. How do I deal with this???

2006-06-05 13:31:06 · 11 answers · asked by foot lovin man 1 in Marriage & Divorce

who went to nigeria to study fashion design we sent each other pictures and we been talking for about a week now . But a few mins ago she asked me to cash a check for her .Then I thought Nigeria the Scam capital of the world I told her to give me her address and I would have my bank call her or to give me the check Numbers of the check and all sudden she was off line .I am wondering if she was even a girl what do U think and what would have u done?

2006-06-05 13:30:08 · 10 answers · asked by Hea Dude ! 6 in Singles & Dating

do you think its really love if hardly comes n sees you?n calls you names even though hes says hes playin?

2006-06-05 13:29:24 · 8 answers · asked by rebekah h 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-05 13:29:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 17 and want a hotel for after prom and wanted to know how old u have to be and where are some cheap ones in my area

2006-06-05 13:28:35 · 3 answers · asked by PrettyBoi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

whenever this girl is around me she talks to me, flirts with me, laughs with me, seems to enjoy being with me, is very competitive with me, sings the song "everytime we touch" by cascada (she is a nasty singer), what does this mean?

2006-06-05 13:28:10 · 18 answers · asked by Pretty Boy 3 in Singles & Dating

...that any good guys would be interested me, a mother of 3? My 360 page is available.

2006-06-05 13:27:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do guys like girls with small or big rears? which do you prefer?

2006-06-05 13:26:44 · 27 answers · asked by Klizzy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-05 13:26:39 · 3 answers · asked by Dr. Lee 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-05 13:24:39 · 12 answers · asked by cstoa10 5 in Family

A fell out with this guy I was seeing a month or 2 ago, I got drunk and text him like 15 times in one night but don't remember doing it . . . he turned round and slagged me off the next day calling me a bunny boiler even tho he knows this is out of character for me and it was just a stupid night out with the girls. However he text me out of the blue Friday asking if we can meet up during the week ?? I replied on the saturday saying for him to call me during the week to arrange something and I haven't heard from him since ?? I know its only monday but really like him and worried what he is thinking ?? I heard whilst we were apart that he played around alot !!! What goes thru a guys head in these situations am I just worried because I like this guy to much ??? so confused

2006-06-05 13:23:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-05 13:21:49 · 24 answers · asked by SANDY 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-05 13:21:04 · 7 answers · asked by hurley Reys 2 in Friends

I loved an older woman, i am 17 and she was 25, and a friend of my family's. She recently moved far away and now i regret never telling her how i felt, even if i would have gotten hurt. And i can't get her out of my head. I MISS HER SOO MUCH!!!

2006-06-05 13:19:26 · 10 answers · asked by dogluver8906 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been seperated from my ex about 2 months i guess. but when she go outside the class after class she looks back to see me. why is that???

2006-06-05 13:19:14 · 6 answers · asked by huichongkim61 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 22 and my fiance is 23, we both want an engagent pary, to annunce our wedding day. This is also an apportunity for us to ask for help in the wedding, such as; cake, photography,D.J, video. The problem is I don't know how to approch the guest.

2006-06-05 13:18:20 · 14 answers · asked by J.J 1 in Weddings

let say your friend gives you four-leaf clover to see smile on your face and make u feel good after failing the test. and took about one week to find it? and be a good listener mo matter how boring ti is he listens to you and give you comments. he cares for you when your mom goes outta town for one months and make you feel special and happy. give you present like watch, teddy bear, ect and everytime she gives you present he suprise you and make you feel happy. alwasy there for you. help you if homework all the time. u can call him anytime u want and he will anser it with happiness. he understands you no matter what u did wrong or did not keep promise? how would u feel if u have him as a friend? go out with him? i gonna ask him out but i just wanna see if he is good b/f material from your point of view. is he good boyfriend????

2006-06-05 13:17:52 · 10 answers · asked by huichongkim61 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am currently married to a man who when drunk is physically abusive. Two weeks ago I told him that I wanted to get a divorce. We have two young kids and I want to find a better father for them.

Now, I have a friend who is always nice to me and my kids. I told him about what’s going on and he expressed his immense love for me. He talked about how smart, beautiful and charming I was. I explained how I couldn’t have a boyfriend until after I was divorced. He agreed. I told him that it was fine if we remained friends while I was in the divorce process.

Yesterday I talked to my husband and he was VERY repentant toward me. He asked for ONE more chance. I agreed.

I have talked to the other guy, and while he is very sad, he is willing to wait for me. I figure that it is only a matter of time before my husband hits me again, but I want him to know that he had that chance to change.

What things can I do with the other guy now, to keep our relationship going? Write him letters? What

2006-06-05 13:16:52 · 41 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my family don't seem to agree with my choice for G/F, and I want to marry her. How can I make them understand that this is what I want and she makes me happy!

2006-06-05 13:16:51 · 14 answers · asked by Iowa_Bound 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

he really doesn't talk to me like a guy should and i have a lot to share with him, we get in fights every night and i cry myself to sleep every night what should i do?

2006-06-05 13:16:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why?

2006-06-05 13:16:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-05 13:15:58 · 10 answers · asked by blossomingcactus 3 in Marriage & Divorce

before this is directed at me (like, to my horror, my previous posts)
i just want to know what you all think?
do YOU think it is healthier? surely potein is harder to come by when you're restricted to beans? and no KFC, Quarter pounders? im not a vegetarian or anything but i do love vegetables....some...and if you are a vegetarian, i do admire you.

2006-06-05 13:14:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok I am lost, when ever we have sex with my bf he only (stays up) for about 10 mins and he (comes dawn) and he goes to bathroom and wish him self and comes back he does it all the time? I don’t now what is wrong with him, he thinks that I wasn’t a virgin before I meet him but I was and I dint tell him that I wasn’t. Anyway when I ask him he said that he loves me and that is the reason he comes dawn so easily. And I told him THAT I DON’T GIVE (HEADS) I WILL GIVE U MSSAGE BUT I WANT SUCK THAT IS JUST NOT ME NEVER DONE IT AND NEVER WELL AND I TOLD HIM THAT. And he said that he really enjoys that more then sex it self, and we just left it as that before we was having sex we use to have oral sex kissing a lot and he always use to try to have sex with now it is like the opposite WHAT SHOULD I DO

2006-06-05 13:14:01 · 2 answers · asked by sweet 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How would you handle it if your wife looks nothing like she did a year ago before you got married and she refuses to do anything about it and says I should love her for whats inside. I dont mean to sound selfish, but looks are important also. She has gained about 30 lbs, cut her hair short, and rarely wears makeup. I know this is very common as I have friends that are going through the same thing. My question is why is this such a common problem, and how do I handle it? sex life sucks.

2006-06-05 13:13:31 · 19 answers · asked by juju 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-05 13:13:23 · 8 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

We've known each other for about 2 years, things are great, she makes me happy, and I think I make her happy and we love each other. What is the most romantic way you could think of to propose marriage to the woman you know is "the one"?

2006-06-05 13:12:36 · 8 answers · asked by Iowa_Bound 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-05 13:09:11 · 10 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family

Me and My dad dont get along together and im afraid of him cause he use to be in the military and is very strict. He use to use a pattle on us to teach us a lesson and when he got mad sometimes he would push me and my brother around. Now me and him get along a little better now that im 15 and not young anymore what should i do still stay with my dad who im afraid to do certain things with him around or should i move in with my mom full time! i love my dad but i dont want to live with someone that im scared of or cant feel safe living there!! My mom is really nice but she also punishs me for bad grades or things i do that are wrong but she is always there for me when i need her!!! (PLZ BE SERIOUS) thank you very much!

2006-06-05 13:09:07 · 24 answers · asked by Thomas B 2 in Family

I have been friends with a guy for 3 years and we're both in our 30's. When we met, there was no romance involved and there never was. We both have stood by each other through trials and tribulations of the workplace, family and relationships, and whatever has come through our lives. At the latest, he met a girl whom he met a month ago. Two weeks later, he moved into her place. A week later, he proposed to her and she accepted. I never said anything to him, but was shocked at his behavior, since this was not like him. Today, I talked to him and he asked me what I thought. I said he was rushing things and he needs to take his time, since he has been married and divorced once, engaged again but the wedding never went through, and now he's in this current relationship. He said I was being insensitive and that I needed to understand where he was coming from. How can I when I think he's rushing things? I don't believe in quick love and told him that. Serious answers only please.

2006-06-05 13:08:52 · 11 answers · asked by camping_girl 4 in Friends