A fell out with this guy I was seeing a month or 2 ago, I got drunk and text him like 15 times in one night but don't remember doing it . . . he turned round and slagged me off the next day calling me a bunny boiler even tho he knows this is out of character for me and it was just a stupid night out with the girls. However he text me out of the blue Friday asking if we can meet up during the week ?? I replied on the saturday saying for him to call me during the week to arrange something and I haven't heard from him since ?? I know its only monday but really like him and worried what he is thinking ?? I heard whilst we were apart that he played around alot !!! What goes thru a guys head in these situations am I just worried because I like this guy to much ??? so confused
2006-06-05 13:23:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a bunny boiler as my understanding goes is someone who like stalks someone they like. Which isn't me by the way am not a scary girl it was just one night and I was very drunk don't usually text guys this often am very independant
2006-06-05 13:38:33 · update #1
the same kinda thing has happened to me and i found that just trying to forget about him is best hard but u have to do it u need to keep your pride girl u have given him the option to call u and he hasn't as yet.. so next time u go out with your girls just make sure your looking good! so if u do bump into him or any of his mates c u they can tell him! he'll start thinking about what he's passed up on over some stupid texts that u sent when u were hammered!
2006-06-05 13:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by blondebirdcrazy 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
He knows he's got you on the string and you're a booty call for him.
"Slagging you off" was the key for him - especially followed by a call a week or two later saying "I want to see you" and then not calling again. Now you're confused and confounded - you like him but he's less attainable to you, so you're hooked.
The next call you get will be at about 11:30 at night some night - "hey, what're you doing? Can I come over?" You'll say yes, you'll have fun, and there you go.
2006-06-05 13:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by jackmack65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, you didnt mean much to him if he has been playing around.
Men generally dont like being texted every minute of the day, they like space to do theyre own thing, thats just men, or at least my understanding of them. They are not into being smothered by woman, they had plenty of that as they were growning up. Best to let than think (and I mean Think) that they are in the driving seat and if you sus that one out you'll be good to go.
2006-06-05 13:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by A_Geologist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bunny boiler- havent had one of those in a while! I guess it depends on what it was you were texting- if it was stuff like "marry me" and "I want 10 kids" well that is life!
if it was worse- like "I want to see other men" - well you can understand his reluctance to see you.
that out of the blue thing is just a booty call BTW
2006-06-05 13:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by grisgris100 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Texting a man 15 times shows desperation and a lack of self-control. Of course he ran away, I would too! Don't let him play the "come-here-go-away" game. Put your foot down; if he makes plans, fine. If he doesn't, cut him off. He sounds like the type that will play you like a violin if you LET him. If you were apart, then he wasn't "playing around". But he shouldn't expect to pick you up and then drop you whenever he feels like it.
2006-06-05 13:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by spookykid313 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you begin to see him again you should take it slow. dont let him use you for a piece of *** either because that could be all he wants since you say he plays around alot. when he calls then just meet him for coffee or something.
what is a bunny boiler anyways? LOL! can you add the detail above? thanks!!
2006-06-05 13:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by Cupid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would not go out with him. Stop being so needy. He obviously is a player and just wants a "good time" with you. Think better of yourself than to stoop to some loser like him. He will never really want you if you continue to be so needy. Men do not like women like that.
2006-06-05 13:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to break it to you but he isn't interested and you should move on!
ok, 15 txt messages??? either leave your phone at home when you go out or cut back on the drink. but, it's done now so don't beat yourself up about it.
ok, he asked you to meet up during the week.........BOOTY CALL!!! he was wanting to dump his load and decided to call you, the fact that he never called you back should have told you that.
some guys are d*cks, you have to weed them out. know you know what he is like, FORGET HIM. soooo not worth it. just take it as a lesson learned!
2006-06-05 13:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are confused.
Give him a chance.
You said to contact you during the week.
Its only Monday.
What if he did play around during the break?
He wasnt involved with you at the time.
2006-06-05 13:30:20 · answer #9 · answered by emeraldisle2222 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um I think this isn't a good place to ask uh ask his friends and may b they have contact with him this could b somthin serious so go to friends thier a way lot more helpful than this site ok not sayin that it's but but it's just not great
2006-06-05 13:27:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋