he really doesn't talk to me like a guy should and i have a lot to share with him, we get in fights every night and i cry myself to sleep every night what should i do?
2006-06-05 13:16:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if he ain't talkin to you like a normal person he ain't worth your time. Tell him like it is if you care about him and he cares about you he would not talk to you the way he does
2006-06-05 13:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by tykasia32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all let me say you are not alone. Many women go throgh this as I did also. I tried to show interest in some of the things he like such as sports, and collectables. This did not work. So I had to find my own interest and worth . I began by writing down what I had to say and the way I felt. It was easier for me that way at first because I could say what I wanted without interruptions. Then I started to read what I had written and I noticed "Hey I really did have a lot to say" as well as a lot of good ideas and plans for the future.Each day I became more and more independant and secure within myself. I even a took up a couple of courses at a adult school in the evening and found out that women are not the only ones who have someone at home and still feel alone. It was so funny because when I went to enroll I really did not have a particular class in mind, I just knew I had to learn someting new. .Once I did there was not stopping me. I stopped trying and he began to show more interest in me because he noticed I had not time to cry. I began to see that I was worth more than just tears and desperation. I found my inner strength. It was something my friends or family could not do for me it was something I had to draw from within. And guess what? Now when I cry it is from Joy and happiness. Just remember if a man does not treat you like a human being and a lady and has no time to listen, then maybe it is time for you to reavaulate you perspectives and objectives as well as worthiness. Remember in a relationship it is supposed to be you and him. Not him or you!
Take care
2006-06-05 13:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by bettyboop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 06:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he makes you cry everynight then maybe you should consider being with him. If he doesn't realize how much he hurts you, then he is not worth it. See how long he keeps treating you like this, and if it continues, it could get worse and you don't want to be in that kind of situation. Talk to him and tell him how you feel and if he won't listen and just tries to fight with you more, then I would seriously reconsider being his girlfriend. Good luck.
2006-06-05 13:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by jkeys00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is not with your boyfriend......it is with YOU, Dearie!!! You have a SERIOUS self-esteem problem. You are emotionally abused and the shame of it is....you put up with it! I cannot feel sorry for you because you are asking for it! Now Stop and take control of your life, young lady! Dump this guiy and go to a counselor...and stop crying yourself to sleep. In the meantime, read the book "Co-Dependent No More" by Melodie Beattie.
2006-06-05 14:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just move on. It's really the best thing to do in a situation that is making you cry every night, that's really unhealthy.
2006-06-05 13:20:18 · answer #6 · answered by avatar.avengance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a little more confidence in yourself. If you are with someone and fighting all the time, then you need to forget about him. You sound like you must be pretty young. Don't be afraid to lose him. There are so many people out there to meet and to get to know. Trust me. If something doesn't seem right, it isn't.
2006-06-05 13:20:45 · answer #7 · answered by tmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but if you have been dating a year and he still isn't treating you like a human being nothing YOU do will probable change that.
no one is worth crying over...
2006-06-05 13:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by ♫piano_player♫ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he makes you cry, he may be abusing you emotionally and you need to get out. Really, if he makes you cry every night, he's not worth it.
2006-06-05 13:18:36 · answer #9 · answered by cucumberlarry1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you put up with that you deserve better treatment as a human leave him you have only invest a year why invest more time on a low life that dont know how to treat a female.
2006-06-05 13:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋