Usually when my wife decides she's against an idea, that's the end of it. So the day before yesterday when I brought up something that, even though not perhaps a huge deal in the great scheme of things, is important to me at the moment, she simply dismissed it right off. The whole conversation took about 15 seconds.
And that's the last conversation we've had. Yesterday was her day off but I ignored her all day. Usually we always hug and kiss every morning before going to work/school, but not this morning. We didn't exchange any words at all, and probably won't tonight either as she'll be home late and I intend to be asleep.
I don't believe giving the silent treatment to your spouse solves anything, it's rather cruel really. But I am just mad at her, and I am mad at myself for being mad. Talking to her now would just result in a big fight, which would not change the way either of us feel.
I guess I could apologize, pretend I'm not angry, just bottle it up. But what good is that?
2007-08-22
02:56:46
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Mika
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