hello
My wife is a super gorgeous raven-haired beauty. Although I love her hair the way it is, I am obsessed creativity and change. (I am always trying new things, moving furniture around, etc :)
So, once goofing off this halloween, my wife put on a blonde wig. Although the wig was obviously poor quality (good for a laugh) the color itself, looked FANTASTIC on her.
Later, this got my creative gears thinking, and I asked her if she would think about going blonde for a bit.
When I casually asked, it was like I opened a huge old wound. She lashed out and said "Blonde is the ugliest color in the enitre world. Blonde hair adds 30 years to your look. Why are you trying to change me? My hair IS me." etc
Woah. I obviously dropped the subject right then and there. Perhaps becasue its now forbidden , or becasue she looked like Gwen Stefani's much sexier sister, I cant stop thinking of it.
Should I shut up? Should I ask again? In what way? Or, should I get to the bottom of the insecurity
2007-11-16
21:59:31
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J & R G
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