My ex got married 8 months ago to another guy. We have a VERY complicated history, we were together 4 years, but each time we were to get married or plan it, or whatever, I got scared and told her to wait. She broke up with me last Dec. 2006 and told me she was tired of waiting, that she wanted to have a baby IMMEDIATELY, and be married. She reconnected with some guy and got married 4 months later. She told me she couldnt trust my false promises anymore. I have and am still devastated, cursing myself, depressed for not marrying her before, I LOVE HERthe complicated thing is that she lives in Spain,I live in the U.S. (she is Spanish). She has told me many times over the past months that she probably made a mistake and loves me so much,but cant risk getting a divorce for me, as she cant trust me as I am so far away.She said I could move there for a period to show her how I feel, but still there would be NO guarantees that this would work or that she would get divorced. What can I do?
2007-12-03
04:19:45
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Marriage & Divorce