BEFORE you leave?? or is it a power thing on why he/she may choose not to tell you until they're already there?
I really don't have a problem with my hubby fishing, he loves it. I'm glad he can relax with buddies and what not. But what bugs me is that he'll go...after being gone for an hour or longer (where I'll wonder if he's okay, working late,etc) THEN he'll call eventually and say 'oh babe, I'm fishing or I'm 'going' fishing (when he's ALREADY there).
Why doesn't he call me at work or even leave a message on my voicemail before I get off work to let me know he's going so that I, myself can go ahead and make plans to do something else? I've told him how I've felt about this. I've actually turn down offers to hang out thinking we'd be home together that night. He knows it hurts me, so what's the big deal in calling beforehand?
He did it tonight. Gone fishing around 4pm and JUST left a message at 7:18pm - literally saying, I'm 'going' fishing. WTF?!
I feel it's disrespectful.
2007-11-07
15:30:36
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LoveSlave
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Marriage & Divorce