Details: 6 years, 1 dog, shared car lease, apartment lease, bank accounts, debt, credit cards, future plans, past experiences, baggage, he doesn't want a relationship, but wants a friendship, complains we argued too much, and no more intimacy. I've also found out recently he may have been seeing someone casually right before that ended (though that relationship went nowhere).
Situation now: moving out to a room this weekend, I'm keeping the dog and most of the furniture (he gets the big screen TV), we're splitting our debt,and most bank accounts, he gets the car, will be paying for it, and he's paying his 1/2 of the apt 'til end of Jan, when I will either move out or go to Australia to complete my Masters.
-How do I maintain a friendship with him with all my hurt feelings and baggage?
-I've found out stuff about him (and that relationship) that I wouldn't have otherwise known if I hadn't snooped. Should I fess up?
-How do I get through this and become happy again and not mad at him?
2007-11-06
02:51:29
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