My husband and I have been married for over 4 years now, and we have a beautiful little boy. In the 4 years we have been married we have actually been "living together" maybe 2. I work very hard to make my husband a nice home, and try to get debt off us whenever he is deployed. However the moment that he comes back, we go right back into debt again from his spending sprees. Because of that I have had to go back to work, and because of the strain on cash I had to find a job that I could take my son with me so we wouldn't have to pay for child care...which means I work 7 days a week, with no days off ever. I am looking for another job, but this is all I can find right now to keep us from financial ruin. Somedays I just look at my husband and want to leave. Just say you take your half of the debt and I'll take mine. We dont connect like we used to, he spends his time playing games online. I just dont know what to do, I made a vow to him and I want to keep it. Its just very hard.
2007-10-19
14:28:34
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~*April*~
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Marriage & Divorce