I have been married for 5 years with one child, our marriage has gone down hill and we have drifted and fight all the time, we basically live separate lives and have not had sex in 5 months. We still spend time with our child together as a family, because we don't want her to feel the tension etc. We have been to counselling and it helped for a while but things went back to the old ways. We can't talk without fighting and we don't know each other anymore. I can't see myself spending the next 40 or 50 years with him, but yet I am scared to say it is over, because of my child, I will turn her little world up side down and am I being totally selfish in wanting to be happy. I don't know how to approach this.
My husband is a good guy and a great father, I know we are better off as friends, but I know if we do break up that won't happen as he will have alot of anger. Also we are both from European families which makes it so hard, as they do not believe in divorce. Advice please!
2007-10-17
17:29:37
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sonsby1
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Marriage & Divorce