i dont like to kiss on the first date, i dont like to be even too much touched. however, i heard that this is very common. i wonder how it is with you? on what date do you kiss your date? when do you go to bed wiht him? i would like to take an average and compare myself to this. maybe im really close to a nun? or maybe i just met guys who like to rush everything? let me know what do you think!
2007-10-17 17:33:11 · 7 answers · asked by Agnieszka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I never kiss on the first date. On the second date I do and I don't sleep with anyone unless I'm in a serious long term relationship with them and because of that I've only had one sexual partner, who I am still with. There are too many diseases out there.
2007-10-17 17:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it all depends on the two people and their chemistry. I've only had two boyfriends and both I kissed before we had a date (both were my friends before that so i knew them pretty well) the first one lasted a week and the second lasted 4 years. I never slept with the first guy but the second guy I slept with after a month of dating....those 4 years were the best years of my life and I don't regret a single moment...it just really all depends on the situation and the people.
2007-10-18 00:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by Ruthie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A sweet short kiss at the end of the first date, only if it went well. Real kisses come after the 2nd or 3rd, and french when it feels right. I never sleep with a guy until I feel comfortable with him, usually after a few months of dating, sometimes more depending on how well I knew him prior to dating him.
2007-10-18 00:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm like that too. but most of my friends and even a lot of me relatives seem to move fast when they meet people. I don't think u should compare yourself to others. in the long run u will make things harder for yourself. I had to learn the hard way. It's kinda like learning to accept yourself for who u are. yea most people do kiss and make out when they first meet people but if u dont' why sweat it?
2007-10-18 00:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by La Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how old you are --- the older you get the quicker it gets --- because you know what you want and are not prepared to wait --- and im not talking only guys the ladies are very similar --- as well there are times when you both want to wait and we do -- we may discuss what we want then leave it --- young guys generally want to experience sex with as many ladies as possible on the premise that if they wait till marriage they wont really know what else may be out there --- best wishes
2007-10-18 00:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not kiss on 1st date,
but if you want to speed up your relationship, you can kiss or do any action more than that.
A proper time for kissing is on 3rd date or later.
2007-10-18 22:09:16 · answer #6 · answered by nhkbte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am pretty much like you. I want to know the guy before we actually touch or do anything.
2007-10-18 00:37:04 · answer #7 · answered by Steph C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋