When you meet Asian women who refuse to date Asian men, what do you think? I'm not against interracial dating and marriage, but at the same time I find something perverse about the reasons these girls tend to give for their exclusive choices. They'll give answers like Asian guys are chauvinistic (which is a complete excuse); have small ***** (even though they've never seen one) not manly enough (but by that logic they'd all be after black guys..and most aren't); we're short (well you're short too), etc. Many seem to paint Asian men the same way the media does...in broad strokes, largely ignorant of his individual humanity. The only thing that makes sense to me is that they've internalized "white" standards and racism, but they're just not apt to seeing it. In her view, she's "made it" to the mainstream and that's all that matters. I see these kinds of women as analogous to a dog that thinks it's human, or she recognizes what she is but rationalizes her choices with shallow excuses?
2007-10-16
10:40:43
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