On June 11th, 2006 my youngest brother died in a motorcycle accident. He was the 3r4 of 4 siblings. I am the only female among these. The sibling who'd have preceded me was a mid-term, terrible miscarriage. The oldest brother is 8 years older than I. Here is the unfortunate problem. Ever since my youngest brother died, my mother has developed a strong resentment for me. I think it is because I'm female and she preferred her sons to me. I can not even really discuss this issue, nor tell her I suffer from what I feel it is an uncalled for behaviour which I can not repair.
This Oct 30th, will be my mother's birthday . . I have never failed to give or send her a gift.
However the last time we talked, only a few days ago, she told me she wanted me to stay away, and hung up.
I've bought her some birthday presents because it's not in my heart to leave her out, no matter how harsh she's now to me. I DO still love her, no matter what. What would you do, if you were me?Send the gifts anyway?
2007-10-01
19:45:48
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