i am 47 and have already been married once, she is 33 and has the same story. For four years I have been complaining I never want to get married, but over teh summer I have really fallen in love with her and at the same time have been making a whole lot of mistakes with her. I really went overboard around augsut 25th and hurt her. she sucked it up and didn't say anything, i felt like i was going to lose her so I called her and propsed, but she seen right through and said ask me agin when you have a clear head. So a week later I told her I was serious. I never asked her face to face or bought a ring. She doesn't go around telling people or talk about it much, but she cries alot and thinks I am just toying with her heart. I tell her I'm not and I'm not real sure how to rectify the situation. I can affor d a ring just dont want to do all that agin. this is her 2nd marriage why would she expect a ring and wedding. she hasn't asked for either, just said we can go away 4 a weekend.
2007-09-23
12:16:39
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