I had an arranged marriage two months ago to a boy from India. We have signed the marriage papers there and he is in the process of getting his visa to come to be with me.
After marriage we spent a week together to get to know each other before I returned to the country where I reside. We will be having our hindu wedding ceremony when he arrives here.
I have been trying hard for da past 2 mths to contect with my husband mentally but there is no love there at all. I'm only now finding out that he is not educated, cant speak english and we have nothing in common, he does not show any effection towards me at all, He also speaks and treats me like I am his friend not a wife.
I understand that he maybe shy & unexperienced, but so am I & at the least he should be showing some effection toward me and trying to get to know me right?
I need advice on what to do in a relationship like this. Will it work out or shud I get out of it before I get stuck in a miserable marriage?
2007-08-26
02:29:07
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Marriage & Divorce