My wife and I have been together for 12 years. She had a child when we met and we've since adopted more. She has gained about 80 pounds since we were married and she was a little big then. I love her, will not cheat, and will not leave. She had a heart problem then a thyroid problem. I have never once said anything about her losing weight. She wants to lose weight. I have asked her millions of times to walk with me. She has joined every weight loss company and I have supported her. I work 70 hours a week so she doesn't have to. I hoped she would take time to work out while the kids are in school, but doesn't. She volunteers for everything under the sun, but too tired to work out. I help with chores at home (vaccum, cook weekends, clean, laundry). There are going to be a bunch of people who yell at me for being shallow, and hassling whatever...those things are untrue. I've done all I think I can. Sexual desire is fading. The weight is too much. Help
2007-08-14
11:48:02
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bigitalyguy
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Marriage & Divorce