never been on a date....asked someone out?

Question

this is a little bit hard to part with, but I am a 29 yr old male who has never been on a date, never asked someone out. I have been in a series of long term relationships pretty steadily over the last 10 years.

Any and all advice about how, what to look for, signs that someone would be willing and any other pertinent advice.

I usually wait for them to approach me, that way I know they are interested

Answer 1

Probably the most significant singular fact I can tell you is this: Do not fear - if you see and speak with someone you'd like to ask out - DO!!! Truly, the worse they can say to you? "No thanks". You try it twice and then don't ask again -And try something innocuous, like going out for coffee and dessert where you can talk as opposed to a movie where you can't hold discourse.

I hate that people are afraid of rejection...rejection is okay, its a learning experience, not to be taken so ultra personally that you ALLOW it to get in the way of continuing on in your quest to find the right girl...

I wish you luck dear...

Grace

Answer 2

The signs of a girl liking you really depends on the girl.
Is she shy is she outgoing and out there. If you like the girl
try to strike up a converstation with her see if you two have anything in commen. Ok well if she is a more shy girl she
is going to obviously be more Resevred not talk as much but
who said you couldnt stare? She is going to stare and if you
ever catach her looking she is going to look away really fast.
Try apporaching her have a casual converstation & See if she
is intrested in tlking back to you. Or she has an annoyed expression on her face. Well on the other hand it wont be so
hard to find out how a loud girl likes you. She would most likely put it out there and probabley ask one of her friends to tell you she likes you. Well basicalley those are all the signs
I could think of! If you never ask anybody out you never know
what you could of had. Thats what life is all about taking risk in
life. Don't be scared to take the bate. You gotta live life to
the fullest and just be yourself. Hope that helped you a little
bit.. =)

Answer 3

Well when you see her you will know that you want her. I don't know how but you will know.and if you like her ask her out or get to know her. Don't hold back cause the next girl you may like may be your wife. Life is taking chances especially with love.

Answer 4

You say you've had long term relationships-did they all ask you out?

Just ask-you won't know until you try!

Answer 5

Look for a friend and the rest will be moved slowly.